Curvaceous Cutie - I know how you feel about your cousin that is jealous. I had a friend, when i first lost weight, that was so threatened by it. All around me i was hearing that i looked better, but she refused to ever mention it. She didn't want someone around her that was losing weight. It can hurt, but you have to realize that she's just jealous. Even if she says to stop, don't you dare. It's her problem, not yours! Keep up the good work!