Good luck with the "talk", calisto! I'm jealous that you are going to Disney--that place is such fun!
We haven't been there in years, but I would love to go back sometime.
We are in the same boat. I told my coach today that I am having a "girls weekend" May 18-20 with a couple of friends from school, and want to have the flexibility to eat sort of normal for the weeknd. So I am doing Phase 1 this week and Phase 2 next week to prepare.
After that, I plan on going back to Phase 1 for at least awhile. But like you, I am considering not going back to the clinic and doing it with alternatives. Also like you, I'd love to lose 20 more lbs, but I really think I can do this on my own--with the support of this forum, of course!