[Kaliii]

So, I'm pretty socially awkward, although, by looking at me you probably wouldn't guess it. (I'm young, have tattoo sleeves, as well as tattoos in various other places, piercings, etc.) I always want to come off as friendly, maybe compliment people sometimes, but I never know how to without seeming awkward or creepy. For example, I'd want to tell someone they have a cute haircut, nice outfit, etc. But I don't want to annoy, embarrass, or make someone feel uncomfortable. Suggestions? Maybe I should just not try? lol

[astrophe]

You smile and say "Hey! Cute haircut!" or "Hey! Nice outfit!" and let it be.

KISS = Keep it simple, silly.

Don't overthink it.

You are passing out feel good happies, and with practice, you will grow comfortable with it.

You aren't being MEAN.

A.

[Brandis]

I always compliment total strangers if I like what they are wearing. I have never had anybody be less than flattered by it. It usually goes like, "Those shoes are so cute!" Or "I like that shirt!" Only if I actually like it, though.

[Laneyy]

Just be real. If someone has cute shoes or a cute bag, tell them so. I do all the time, even to complete strangers.

Made the mistake of commenting on some guy's ink once, (it was SUCH a nice pinup!) and he says "Oh yeah, I have to get that covered up, it's my ex-wife". Boo

[aeyesolo]

I absolutely love to compliment people! (I've always been very devil-may-care about being forward with people though) I'm always super flattered if someone takes the time to compliment me, especially if I don't know them, so I always make an effort to do the same for others.

[DietVet]

It's really admirable that you have this project to become nicer and friendlier! Compliments are good, but I find that friendliness is really about showing *interest* in other people. Excessive reliance on compliments can make a person seem insecure (and insincere) but it is always appropriate to be interested in other people and to ask them questions about themselves. And smile, natch.

[vixxi]

I like to compliment people, I think if you are honest with your compliments then it won't come off as creepy or awkward. It's really nice to make someone feel good, I know when I get a compliment it makes me happy. I think people need to compliment others more often!

[Munchy]

Originally Posted by Laneyy

Made the mistake of commenting on some guy's ink once, (it was SUCH a nice pinup!) and he says "Oh yeah, I have to get that covered up, it's my ex-wife". Boo

Hahaha! That sounds like something that would happen to me!

[LockItUp]

It may be something that the more you do the more comfortable you will be with it. Just say it, don't over think it, like others said.

[EagleRiverDee]

I think it's fine to say "Great outfit", "Great shoes" or "Great haircut!". However if you're complimenting weight loss or something like that, I tend to use "Wow, you look terrific!" instead. Some people don't want their weight loss pointed out, but saying they look terrific- who can be offended at that?