I can definitely relate to this. I was almost happy to not get attention from men, asides from my boyfriend, when I gained weight two years ago. Now, I'm pregnant and I get even less attention, lol. But I'm determined to challenge that thought after my baby is born. I really need to be healthy and despite my worries about men, it's hurting me no matter what. I'm the one unhappy at the end of the day.
Sorry I'm rambling with no clear concise thoughts, but I do understand.