I've lost weight all by myself all year (started 1/1/11). No plans or clubs, no special weird food. Just reading here and educating myself about calories and health.
Every week I lose between 0-2lb. Some weeks 0 (even when I was good), some weeks 1lb, some weeks 2lb. It feels like it's been slow. But on the other hand, it feels like hardly any time at all. So keep at it the slow way, who wants to pay dues or go to meetings, or buy weird diet food for the rest of their lives?
I'm sure people that have been at it much longer than me will chime in here, and give you some great advice