My husband did something today that I am not only completely floored about but also very hurt and upset by.
He knows that I am borderline Diabetic and have taken a new turn in my life to get healthy and lose weight. Well the first step that I have chosen is to rid myself of my sugar/junk food addiction. I struggle with it everyday and I really have to focus hard but I do it. Now before I go on, let me tell you that my husband is about 60 pounds over weight and complains constantly that he is "fat" and needs to lose weight but yet he will never take the initiative to doing anything about it.
So he went to the store tonight for a few things, no big deal. I made dinner and had some fruit for my desert. He gets up from the couch, goes into the kitchen, sits down right next to me and proceeds to open a Caramello Bar (one of my favorites). I said "I thought you weren't going to eat that stuff anymore" he said "I wasn't", I said "Then go throw it in the garbage", he said "No, Im not wasting money. Here, I'll share it with you", I said "Have you totally forgotten that Im not doing eating that stuff anymore?" ok, here's the kicker. He breaks a square of chocolate off and waves it in front of my nose and face and says "You know you want it".
I could NOT believe he did that.
Well after that I had some choice words with him and of course he said "I was just joking". SOB!
Needless to say we are not on speaking terms right now and I am very hurt. Am I being to sensitive?
Angela