First of all, you have to quit smoking. I think wanting to have another baby is motivation enough to kick that habit to the curb. I was a smoker for years and finally quit for the final time about two years ago.
And I think that wanting to have another baby is also a great motivation to lose weight too. I would just tell yourself every day that every day you're overweight is another day that you don't want to get pregnant at this weight. I know exactly how you feel, I haven't had kids, but when me and my fiance get married and do decide to have kids, I need to be at a healthy weight. And thats motivating to me.
start now! just by posting here is great! just look at your goals and past accomplishments and i think you'll find even more motivation. And take it one day at a time. good luck!
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Ughh WHAT HAPPENED TO ME?!
And i was down to 192, now at 199 I DO NOT want to see the 200's again ever!! Lately i've been having like stabbing heart pain, probably a combination of being overweight and eating like crap, plus smoking. I reallly need to loose this weight. I want to have another baby soon but I am scared to death to get pregnant at this weight. People tell me whats the point of loosing weight then getting pregnant, but I know my health and would rather be safe and loose first then get pregnant and loose it again. I just need help I don't know what happened I am so mad at myself I could have been in the 180's maybe even lower by now!! What should I do? I just cant stay away from taco bell and my fav lime chips!! ugh 
