I'm really really sad. I've been close to my grandma since I was little. She's been very sick all of her life. She went into the hospital Friday night but was doing better, we all thought she had a stomach bug but she seemed to be improving. They were literally about to release her and all of her tests seemed ok. However yesterday, all of a sudden, her heart just stopped She was 71.
I went to the hospital and saw her after she had passed and now I'm thinking that it may have been a bad idea to actually
see her, not moving or breathing or talking or anything. She was just gone. It almost doesn't feel real.
I feel so bad for my father and my grandfather, my little sister. I also feel an immense sense of guilt for not calling more etc. I know that the guilt I feel is silly because I just saw her on Monday but.. I dunno.
Her funeral is either tomorrow, which means I'll miss the first day of either 1 or 2 classes for this semester. I'm the type of student that never misses classes, especially during the first week. So now I also feel guilty that I'm concerned about missing classes when I should really NOT be thinking of my own selfish issues.
Right now they're doing an autopsy because they don't understand why she died. I don't know what to make of that. It's possible that the nurse that was taking her blood let an air bubble in, because not 10 minutes earlier did she have her blood drawn. I dunno.
Anyway, I just wanted to let it out and get some support. My eating has been the same as always, and before I found out the news, I went for a run but planned on working out more later in the day, which never happened because I was with family and stuff. Today I need to find time to work out, just to keep it going and stay in the habit. I'm trying to not feel too sorry for myself.
Anyway, any kind words would help me. I feel like now there's one fewer people in this world to love me, if that makes any sense. I know that normally, I could call her and tell her something like that, but I can't. It's difficult to get used to.