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Originally Posted by junebug41
How I ever got married is beyond me. I think I just found THE guy, decided he was nice, funny, and charming and I wasn't going to let him get a way. Thank God he let me snatch him up!
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Indeed!
No but really... along the lines of this... I think as long as you're open to someone you're attracted to and think you could possibly like.. when the right one comes along, it'll happen for you. Not all of us are meant to be chronic daters, etc.... some people go along alone until the right one comes along and that's it... they're taken and happy with it for life.
Nothing wrong with that either. For someone who is a chronic dater/friends with benefits type... or at least I used to be... let me tell you.... it's NOT THAT GREAT. Rather exhausting and emotionally wearing.
Until I took a time out, a breather, from all the guy junk and stepped away from it for about a year... I didn't really have time to stop and reevaluate myself, my life, and the (bad) relationships/whatevers I'd been in. Stayed single after that until Mr. Awesome stepped into (well, kinda, we'd been friends for about 2 1/2 years before that!) my life and somehow managed to pick up the reins, to both of our surprises.
Good luck... and quit stressing about it so much. Seriously... your Mr. Awesome will eventually realize you're not just Miss Friend one day!