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Originally Posted by Su-Bee
Yeah sweetie, I think you have a situation here where "he's just not that into you."
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Right now you're on a journey to reinvent yourself from the inside out. I would look at it this way; is he supporting you emotionally through this? Is he supporting you emotionally at all? What positive thing, besides the sex (and maybe not even that
) has he contributed to your "friendship"? If he just makes conversation to get to the benefits, ditch him. You certainly didn't decide to change and make yourself and your life better so that some idiot could come around and act like the rusty anchor.
You don't owe anything to him, if that's what's nagging you. Tell him over the phone, text, face-to-face, whatever, that whatever it is you two had is over. And if he wasn't that great of a friend to begin with, I wouldn't count on trying to amend that relationship either. You are a strong, determined woman, and you don't need anything that isn't making a happy and positive contribution to your life. Good luck!