After a lot thought and a few talks with DH we are going with WW Flex. He can eat a more normal diet and have the things he likes and I can have what I want and like as well. SB diet is great and I love it but it causes DH to be a Grump and I can't live with that 24/7. Buying in stuff that he can eat and having it around will only tempt me to eat it as well so if we both work at the same diet we will both be happier.
We are at home all day with each other and trust me having a Grump around is no fun. So after a lot of talking we are going to switch to a diet that he can handle easier and make my life easier.
I am letting all of you know as I want you all to know that I am very grateful for your support and help and would hate you to think I took it for granted.
I will be around in the WW bit.
Thank you all for your help.