Confused!
I just joined a gym where you work out in small groups of 1-4 women with a personal trainer. It's pretty sweet--having a trainer there makes me work a lot harder. More importantly, I joined because you have a set appointment time, and right now that's the only thing that is making me go in! However, I just had a meeting with one of the trainers about my diet and he wants me to go on something really strict and miserable sounding. I wouldn't be "allowed" to eat apples. He wants me to lose 20 pounds in 16 weeks. I was thinking of losing something between 10-15 pounds. But now I'm feeling like "I'm not working hard enough" by not watching what I eat so intensely, and I feel *guilty* for the apple I'm about to eat! I don't want to feel guilty about *any* food, but I'm worried I'm going to be disappointed over the next few weeks if I "only" lose 5-10 pounds. I've been cutting back on certain things, but I haven't totally eliminated them.
So my question to you guys: Do I go crazy for the next 16 weeks? Do I stay the course and focus my workouts on getting stronger and healthier, and not necessarily skinnier?
I'm just confused...I need your collective wisdom!
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