Hi everyone,
I'd just like to write some thoughts out about this weekend and see if anyone has any advice or related stories to share:
This weekend isn't turning out to be the great excersising and eating healthy weekend that I hoped it would be. Last night we were invited to dinner at a neighbor's house. She made authentic Mexican tostadas, complete with homemade refried beans, crunchy corn tostada shells, and all the other yummy fixins. It was seriously delicious... For dessert we had fresh berries, Cool Whip and little brownie bites. I also had two Smirnoff cooler things, which I know are full of sugar. I don't normally drink, but I had a couple with dinner.
Today we went to friends' to visit and again, eat dinner. These people stay on the couch or in their recliners all day watching TV. I'm sore just from not moving around all day. Plus it's an hour and a half car ride each way there and back. In the morning before we left I had two pieces of whole wheat toast with cinnamon and raisin swirl peanut butter. For the car ride I packed a plum, almonds, trail mix, and cut veggies. I had the plum and the almonds on the drive there. I know they always make a big dinner, so I was trying to not be starving by the time we got there. And I was right. Dinner was steamed asparagus, chicken flavored Rice a Roni, and THE largest chicken breast I had ever seen. I joked about chicken implants, this thing was so huge.
I ate a quarter of it and brought the rest home. We had chocolate chip ice cream with chocolate syrup for dessert. I also snacked on some honey roasted peanuts that I picked up at a gas station on the drive home.
Does it sound like I went overboard? I feel like I ate a lot, and having the dessert two nights in a row, plus alcohol, seemed like a big indulgence. Friday I worked out pretty hard at the gym, but of course didn't hardly move today. I plan to go work out on Sunday, and then take my kickboxing class Monday. I know I've eaten way larger quantities and worse food before, so I'm just trying to tell myself it's ok to live my life and eat what I want without guilt. But it's hard to know if it's normal social eating or if I took advantage of the situation and overdid it.
I've read a lot of success stories lately, and it seems like the biggest theme is to just keep showing up and making the right decisions, in spite of yourself sometimes, and eventually all of those good actions and good choices add up to accomplishing the goal. When I make choices like, eat that ice cream and syrup, I can't help but struggle with am I making the wrong choice that's leading me away from my goal, or am I living my life and being a social being who deserves dessert with friends? Do you all relate to that internal argument?
Thanks for letting me vent. Hope everyone's having a good weekend.