I feel everything you guys are saying. Oh my God.
I am still in High School and since its 80 freaking degrees outside already, everyone wears short shorts, skirts, dresses, heels, and sleeveless shirts. not me! I'm not nearly the fattest person in my class but I feel like I am the only one uncomfortable with my body. It sucks haha.
I wear skinny jeans. I really don't give a damn about what people think I look like in them. People bigger than me wear them, and I like the way I look in them haha. But yeah, I do wear skinny jeans.

Wearing:
hopefully my prom dress (next may 2011!)
sundresses
skirts (I haven't worn these since I was like 10)
shorts (I haven't worn these since I was like 8)
sleveless shirts
NO MORE FREAKING HOODIES & JACKETS
Bathing suits without a shirt over them
Leggings
Lingerie
spandex

Doing
SHOPPING
Dancing
Partying
Dating
Swimming
Not having to order some clothes online because of my size.
Having More Fun
Getting a lookbook account & actually using it
Going out more
enjoying the beach
liking pictures that are taken of me
I'd love to take a poledancing class to be quite honest.
going to the spa more often

Feeling
Like a REAL GIRL. (gosh I feel like the female version of Pinnochio.)
Beautiful
Sexy
Confident
Skinny :P
Unashamed of my fatness.

Clothing
- Be able to wear (and look good in) Pinup Girl clothing
- Be able to buy most of my clothes off the rack without having to go to 10 different stores.

Doing
- Keep up with my kids
- Dance
- Sing without getting winded

Feeling
- Healthy
- Happy with myself
- Sexy
- Beautiful
- Active
- Like I accomplished something important.

[B]to wear:[B] stilletto's without falling over; "surfer girl" clothes; pants that dont have to have the length shortened; Wonderbra's; dresses; vests,etc.

[B]to do:[B] swim in front of my family; run without the "girls" jiggling; go hiking; do more fun things with my husband (hint hint:o) and fun things with my kids and also NOT HAVE TO SUCK IN MY STOMACH FOR PHOTOGRAPHS!!!:hug:

Wearing
Skinny Jeans
Sleeveless shirts and Tanks
Shorts
Dresses without Spanx
Leggings
A Catsuit (lol!)
Lingerie
A sexy Halloween costume
Boots that zip ALL the way up
High Waist Skirt
Backless Dresses and Tops

Doing
Feeling sexy at the club
Riding Roller-coasters
Feeling sexy when I'm having sex. I'm so tired of having sex with clothes on.
Riding. I always feel uncomfortable on top with my big thighs and belly!
Shopping
Eating junk in public.
Dancing!
Getting some more tattoos

-Being able to tell family and friends how much I weigh or what size I am.
-Not looking down in shame anytime anyone makes a comment about losing weight. I do this a lot, if my sister starts talking about how much weight she wants to lose (she's about 140 i think), I get quiet and change the subject. Same thing with my husband (muscular guy, plays LOTS of soccer)
-Wearing cute tees and seeing stuff I like at the store and just grabbing it off the rack
-Cute panties!!!
-Being confident enough to wear makeup and accesorize. (I haven't really done this much, I always worry that people will think, "Why is she even trying? Doesn't she realize how fat she is?" and things of that nature.)
-Not being called "gordita" by my husband's family
-Going to more clubs
-Leggings
-Being "hot" for my man
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*Wearing cute panties without any extra skin flapping over when I sit down
*Getting a Brazilian wax and not worrying about my thunder thighs
*Wearing a sheath swimsuit to the pool
*Being able to pick up great clothes @ vintage stores
*Getting a tattoo on my arm and/or shoulder
*Not wanting to cover myself up after I get out of the shower or get dressed in fron of my husband (silly!)

wearing-
-corsets
-skinny high heels
-ballet boots (and be able to walk in them, even if it's only 3 steps)
-boots, the sexier, the better
-short skirts
-underwire bras (without them poking into my sidefat)
-pantyhose (without them shredding my legs from rubbing)
-bikini
-anything form fitting
-choker style victorian necklaces (without them being hidden by a double chin)
-sexy lingerie
-pretty wedding dress, not some lacy white circus tent

doing-
-sexy photo shoot (nude) to surprise hubby
-dancing in public (talented or not)
-getting the front end of a 57' Fury tattoo on the small of my back
-doing any damn thing I feel like, when I feel like it, because I can. Not just saying "I'm too fat for that"

feeling-
-capable
-sexy
-alive
-human again

Wearing:
Summer Dresses- and feeling good in them

Doing:
Going to a club and not being the fattest girl there.
Getting a Boyfriend! (5 year dry spell)

I am so with you on that one. My last boyfriend broke up with me partly because of my weight and I really want to leave obesity behind by the time I hit the 2-year mark on that disaster.

Other than that, I just want to feel healthy and kick my sweaty rolls off of my body.

All of you guys have great ones! I'm a little late, but here goes.

Wearing
Cropped jeans without looking like a perfect square
Just ONE top—I'm always wearing layers to cover up and almost ALWAYS in a cardigan
Comfy pants/workout clothes without looking sloppy

Doing
Getting tattoos is spots I'm ashamed to show now (shoulder, back...). I have one on my ankle and one on my wrist, but I'd like some that aren't as far away from my torso as possible ;)
Getting picked up by my boyfriend again (it's been 100 pounds since I dare let him try!)
Going to the beach
Riding amusement park rides (I LOVE roller coasters but for the last year I've been too afraid to try for fear I won't fit, and I KNOW I don't fit in most carnival rides)

Not having back fat!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am absolutley in the same boat as you on this one! I have an entire box of clothes that used to look awesome on me that are now just waiting until I am able to rock them again! I cant wait.

Also... looking forward to having more confidence to have more fun ;) with the boyfriend. Giggity

You guys are super amazing, inspiring, and make me feel like I can actually say what I mean instead of lying.

Wearing:
- Flowy, oversized tops without looking ridiculous
- short shorts
- button-down flannels (or ANYTHING button-down, for that matter)
- sexy underwear
- clothes for non plus-sized people
- t-shirts and looking cute; not sloppy

Doing:
- getting a tattoo(s)
- flirting more
- sitting down and not knowing there's a huge bulge from where my pants are/basically hating sitting; ever
- looking at myself in pictures/videos/taking the privacy setting off my facebook
- being able to run
- GETTING A BREAST REDUCTION (my #1 goal in losing weight...)

Feeling:
- Sexy, maybe, instead of cute
- not gross
- at peace

Oh, and not feeling so much uncontrollable rage. :)

I have alot of things I wanna do...

WEAR:
*Pin Up Girl Dresses and feel great in them
*Boy cut undies and have them boy cuts and not get lost into the nether regions
*Those cute/colorful knee high socks and have them come to my knees instead of somewhere around my calves.
*leggings with just a shirt over it...
*Being able to wear my corsets again

DOING:
*Get the tattoos on my hip that will go up my side and another one on my other side. (will look so good on a sexy, fat free tummy)
*Dating
*Not having my legs rub together when I walk.
*Not getting that weird rash under my boobs cause its so hot and my fat is rubbing against each other.

FEELING:
*Like I look as hot on the outside as I feel on the inside.
*Like when guys look at me they see ME and not my fat.

When I reach goal and maintain for 6 months, I am getting boudoir/pinup photos done. I can't wait to buy a corset or just a lacy frilly pair of undies. I also can't wait to wear heels again.