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Old 12-29-2013, 09:03 AM   #3
SparklyBunny
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Originally Posted by Mazzy View Post
Personally, if these folks really wanted to change their habits, they would do it for themselves. Unless they are approaching you constantly, and take your responses seriously, I wouldn't worry about how they ate, but focus on what you're doing.
You're right. I have a history of codependence and it's difficult to not get involved and even pander to someone else's version of reality. It's really annoying and I often find it simpler to just be alone than allow people near, as it's difficult to hold onto boundaries and say "no". I really want to help if I can, but I don't want to get sucked into someone else's illusions. Again.
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