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Well, I'm definitely not as organized as I used/like to be. Having four kids I definitely have to prioritize what gets cleaned first. I do a lot of "vanity" cleaning most days, the places that are most visible. Places like closets, basement, garage, etc get the least attention. The basement has become the "catch all" space and things get tossed down there to lessen the clutter upstairs.
Things on top of my list are keeping the sink clear of dishes, bathrooms respectfully cleaned, laundry kept up (6 people, LOTS of laundry if it gets behind) floors vacuumed if needed, toys picked up and clothes off of kids floors. Everything else usually falls into place after that.
This describes me pretty much to a "T" also
ETA: My husband is a HUGE help around the house, bless his heart. He will jump right in there and help with dishes, laundry, basic housecleaning, etc.
Last edited by thnknthin1; 04-24-2013 at 01:33 PM.
My house is getting better everyday.. lol.. I usually am like the quote above though. Get most of the cleaning done right before someone comes over. haha
Last edited by sassyangies; 04-24-2013 at 01:46 PM.
I did sign up for Fly Lady. At first I was totally overwhelmed by the e-mails, but now I'm getting there.
I will be cleaning off my night stand tonight! I even grabbed a candle from work to put there. Last night I also cleared out my car (and did NOT just pile all the junk in a corner of the garage)- AND detailed it. I deserve to drive in a beautifully clean car.
I think a lot of this whole housekeeping business has to do with my lack of self-compassion.
On days when the housekeeping has fallen to the wayside, I sometimes park the vacuum near the front door. I figure if someone drops by unannounced, it'll look like I'm in the process of cleaning.
On days when the housekeeping has fallen to the wayside, I sometimes park the vacuum near the front door. I figure if someone drops by unannounced, it'll look like I'm in the process of cleaning.
Best thing I've heard all day!
Before we moved in together we discussed chores. Luckily it worked out where the things I hate to do he likes to do, and vice-versa, so score!!
I try to do a little something each night...and I mean little. Like sort through the mail, pay the bills, or cook. When I cook I usually make double or triple batches so it will last a couple of days. Since he cleans the kitchen he's fine with that, he doesn't have to clean it every night.
The weekends are when I do the big things like vacuum or laundry.
I got very lucky when I met him! I think I used up all my "luck" so I won't be winning the power ball.
I am in the process of organizing the house and its been really hard. I want everything to find a good home but recently I have realized I just need it to simply leave. DS room is the worst I didn't just want to get rid of all his old stuff but now I am. Its piling up and my space is too small.
The trunk of my car is the worst... its a catch all for me. Stuff I didn't want to carry in like the beach cabana from my last vacation (*cough* last year) is still in there some where.
On days when the housekeeping has fallen to the wayside, I sometimes park the vacuum near the front door. I figure if someone drops by unannounced, it'll look like I'm in the process of cleaning.
that's clever !!!
I live alone (with my kitty actually) and I try not to keep the household chores for the weekend cos my bf comes over and the last thing I wanna do is mop and scrub when he's around! (I'd have to dust behind his ears too!) I try to keep the apartment clean. Put everything back from where I picked it up.. saves a lot of time and trouble later!
and having a kitty means random fur balls and scraped off carpet threads and mysterious paw prints on the coffee table !!! If I see it dirty, it gets cleaned at that instant. Helps you stay organized else one day you wake up and feel like writing to the TV channels to film the next episode of HOARDERS in your house!!
You're reminding me I need to redo my schedule, as we have a new member and I've adjusted the order of daily events slightly.
But basically I use a schedule/routine system (from a brilliant book called "Managers of their Homes" that is aimed at Christian homeschoolers) to map out how to get all the chunks of activity done each day, and then a secondary of lists to dictate the specifics. While I use a system that is specific to my stage of life, even when I'm old and gray I doubt I'll get rid of having a written schedule posted in easy view - I can't believe how much more I can get done just by earmarking timeslots and learning the (not too painful) discipline of actually moving from one task to the next without dawdling
Here above is my schedule, all nice and color coordinated . This helps me so much to get dinner done on time, everyone up at the right hour, and have time each day for the basic cleaning and chores that must fit somewhere.
And here are the sub-lists, one for chores and one for school activities. This insures that each week my house is reasonably clean and if something does come up, like the baby's birth, then nothing can get too gross for a few weeks of lapse because it all got hit recently. The school list is specifically so I can prioritize the major learning tasks each day while still rotating more fun/auxiliary activities regularly.
I have one more sub-list to fit the slots on the calendar, and that is my meal planning on my fridge. It helps me keep track of what is served for breakfast and lunch on a regular basis, as well as helping me keep my groceries organized and frequently used throughout the dinner menu. Breakfasts and lunches ideally do not change week to week, to streamline planning and take the mental energy out of the task. Dinners are written down WITH prep time so I can get things going in an orderly fashion and start things like meat thawing or a crockpot cooking in time to get dinner on the table (preventing the last minute takeout syndrome ). I can't praise the system enough, it has saved my bacon SO many times!
Things not on the charts are the daily tasks like wiping down tables, several loads of dishes, sweeping under the table, picking up toys several times per day, etc. These tasks are accomplished by me (and more recently I've been using my 4 and 6 year old to take these over) in five minute bursts throughout the day as needed. I always try to make sure my living room is picked up and the dishes are done by the end of the night. It's kind of a non-negotiable start to the next day to have things in order. A messy kitchen and main area is a quick way to make me feel defeated before I've ever begun.
I tried using Flylady and other such systems for cleaning, but ultimately breaking up the bigger chores into one per day (which takes me only about half an hour a day! Yay!) and dealing with the bigger jobs on weekends has helped immensely. But none of that would be possible without the initial schedule SHOWING me just how to fit it all in. Doing that was a beast the first time, like a jigsaw of doom. But once it came together it was brilliant, and I refine it seasonally as our family changes or activities adjust. Having that sucker in paper, in the middle of the house, helps ALL of us stay on task throughout the day and leaves time for both organizing/cleaning AND sitting around chatting it up on the Internet.
And that's how I organize my day - not perfect, and most days I don't get it all done as I'd like, but getting even 70-80% of the way there on a given day is immensely better than even my best and most frantic efforts before I organized my time and worked seriously on self discipline.
Last edited by Arctic Mama; 04-24-2013 at 07:22 PM.
On days when the housekeeping has fallen to the wayside, I sometimes park the vacuum near the front door. I figure if someone drops by unannounced, it'll look like I'm in the process of cleaning.
I swear I do this too, except mine stays out for a few days! Even my husband thinks I've been cleaning!!
And I'm not sure ifi even answered you question. Sorry
As for organizing in the physical sense, I take one zone or task per day. I did this with nesting right before the baby was born. One day was kitchen cabinets, another was our closet/my desk, then the kids rooms, under the guest bathroom sink, etc. One day each, unless I really was on fire with it and eager to do more. My whole house was ready in about two weeks - including buying some extra storage cubes, sorting for a garage sale, etc. I had to move stuff around a few times and reshuffle it as space became available (like our linen closet stuff is under a bathroom sink but I had to fold it and leave it in our room unfinished until I got around to clearing that sink a few days later). Committing to not quit until the job is done, so those piles or unfinished tasks don't STAY that way, is really helpful.
And I'm not sure ifi even answered you question. Sorry
You totally did. I drooled at your boards. I grew up in a very cluttered and messy home and never developed good cleaning habits. I know I will have to find my own way....but I like knowing what kind of ways exist!
I am not one of those people who organize and list out to do's - never have been.
I do things around the house every day as they need doing, and don't have a scheduled clean up day. I usually do a load of laundry or two every night. We kind of split the house in two. I take care of the main floor, and my husband takes care of downstairs. That's where he spends most of his time anyway, so why should I clean it? :P
I think I prefer little cleanings during the week so that I have the weekend off from everything. I'm pretty busy during the week, so weekends are for relaxing.
I'm all about little cleanings. A half hour once per day of actual chores is my max, the rest is just picking up/wiping down kind of stuff that takes no real time at all. I am not a naturally motivated person, I procrastinate horribly, so it took drowning under my kids and house to snap me into learning and changing. I had to get completely overwhelmed to find a way out
How do you organize your life?
that's clever !!! 
