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Old 02-19-2013, 12:59 AM   #2
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Location: Juneau, Alaska
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S/C/G: 230/180/150

Height: 5'5"


I know that losing weight gave me more confidence but it hasn't necessarily made me want to be more social....If you weren't worried about your weight/looks/voice, would you WANT friends? Some people are NOT social (i should know, i married one) and some people naturally enjoy being around others....It's hard to put yourself out there and risk rejection...On the other hand it may be easier to take that risk with a girl from a website rather than a romantic interest...Perhaps better to test the waters that way and gain some experience at social interactions?

I personally would go for it....but that's just my nature...I'd rather risk it or put myself out there than look back and wonder "what could have been?" Know what i mean?
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