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Old 01-15-2012, 05:13 AM   #12
Karig89
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my husband is exactly the same way and it can be infuriating sometimes! I have told him many times I wish I could see myself through your eyes just for one day!
It isn't that my husband isn't supportive but I think they don't realize how unhappy we are living in an unhealthy lifestyle. My husband is naturally thin so he loves my cooking and I think he feels if I change my lifestyle too much, his will also have to change.
I finally had a heart to heart with him and explained we both need to change. Just because his favorite food doesn't go to his hips it goes to mine and it makes me terribly unhappy. If he wants his wife happy he needs to support me and stop enabling me to eat things I know aren't good for either of us.
It took a while but it eventually got through..we have our moments but all in all he has begun to support my lifestyle changes. So point being here is..talk to him and tell him how you feel about this and what you wish he would do so you can succeed.
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