It sounds like you're making some great changes in your life! There was actually an article posted recently that found that those who most successful maintained weight loss at regular meals + snacks a day. I think it can definitely help (I know it's helped me!).
BTW, don't beat yourself up over the magic number 8. I've lost a lot of weight and have never pulled off such a high number in a month!!! Normally I lose between 2-4lbs/month and ever blue moon I'll lose up to 5lbs (normally followed by a 2lb/month loss..). Its better to focus on the awesome changes you are making and celebrate every pound loss no matter the speed. Time is going to pass no matter what so why not lose weight while it does even if it isn't quickly?