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Originally Posted by bargoo
Many times people notice but are afraid to say something, just like the person who thought she might offend you and some will be wondering if you are losing because you are ill.All kinds of reasons they may not say anything. People who see us everyday are not as aware of our weight loss as someone who hasn't seen us for awhile. It helps too when we get new clothes in our new , smaller size that usually brings about remarks
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I agree. I'm hesitate to say something to someone because you don't know how they will take it. I'm totally open about my weight challenges so I take comments about my weight loss in stride but you never know with others. I finally decided to mention to a co-worker that she looked great and she was an inspiration and I learned she lost 95 pounds. Trust me, a lot of us noticed, we just didn't want to offend her since she was not someone who discussed anything about diet or losing weight.