I hope you don't mind if I join in on the 40-somethings thread... I'm 39 and will be 40 in about a half year... and I need to find somewhere I "belong"...
I've been a member here for ages. And I'm still in the same place.
I know it's my own fault. I know I'm the only one that can get control of my body. I know I need to plan, weigh, measure, control portions. I KNOW everything that I need to do I'm just simply NOT doing it and I don't know why.
I just want to belong somewhere where I can truly get support. I hope I'm in the right place now.