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Old 05-22-2011, 10:12 PM   #14
krampus
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I am with indiblue. Each and every person in a relationship should have a Plan B in case of emergency/planning for the worst. Being prepared is not the same as dooming the relationship to failure, it just means you're being savvy and smart and strong. There is nothing sadder than people who lose themselves completely as a result of a breakup because they have given up their own independent identities.

Everyone sees relationships differently, but I personally discard the "two halves comprising one whole" idea and prefer "two unique, independent wholes that choose to share their best interests with each other."

Whatever you choose to do, I hope it makes you happy!
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