What does this mean?
Ok so I've been dating this guy for over a month. At first he was like super into me. Then things slowed down. Then about two weeks ago he started having issues at work...but has other opportunities so he said he was "stoked" about his opportunity to move on or whatever. So then last week I barely heard from him. I texted him Mon and Wed...he texted on Thursday. And we didn't see each other at all. And I haven't heard from him since then (I realize its only Saturday but considering we ususally at least text each other once a day...its weird).
So I'm wondering if he's just over it? Its such a dramatic shift from how it was before (a text everyday, hanging out at least once a week). If he is over it I think just not communicating anymore is kind of BS...
Part of me wants to call him and ask what is up...but then the other part of me thinks that would make me look desperate and like a loser. I'm torn between wanting closure (and the possibility of making him feel uncomfortable which I would enjoy if he is indeed being a jerk) and wanting to just let it go. I wasn't in love with him. I just enjoyed hanging out with him and I'm not understanding exactly what went wrong.
Advice? Thoughts?
Last edited by wibblewobble; 03-19-2011 at 08:33 PM.
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