300+ And Ready To Try Again #1048
 

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Annie -- :hug: :hug: I am so sorry to hear about your brother. I don't have any words, other than to express my deep condolences. :hug:

People are always posting as I am then I "miss" them on my post, lol. I can't ever catch up, lol.

Jill: Sorry you are having such a hard time with the scales. It not fair at all & its ok for you to be mad & upset. Just don't give up. You have the right attitude. It will show up eventually. One morning it will take you by surprise!

Misti: Thats really neat that you can get points from housework. I am doing the other challenge first & you don't get to do that. I just have to get 30 mins of exercise 5 days a week. It does tally my points though & when I switch to the medals challenge then my points come with me. I plan on switching after I have completed this challenge. I like that you have "medal goals" instead of weight goals.

Sharon: So glad to hear that you are in a better mood now.

ok--i started a new thread, then had to go outside to take the dog out and saw our neighbors out putting up their christmas decorations! now, i LOVE christmas, it's my favorite holiday/time of year, and we go crazy with decorations too, but isn't 4 days after halloween just a little too early for christmas? i hate it when the stores put stuff out before halloween too! it just doesn't make it special when it's out half the year!! ok.....sorry about that, just an early morning rant! :rolleyes:

so, i missed a lot of the thread yesterday, but i'll try to catch up with personals:

kayley--i love scrubs too! i have the first season on dvd and put it in a lot. it cracks me up! i used to watch law and order, but got away from it for some reason. i really love csi, but never watch it cuz it's on the same time as grey's anatomy. i usually just wait until the season comes out on dvd, then rent it on a weekend when we don't have plans and stay up late to watch it (we don't have kids yet and my husband works nights, so i have the time and tv to myself then). anyway, i saw on the tread that your BF has lost 200 lbs? that's great! tell him way to go!!

katt--way to go on saying no to burger king! i think i would have been ordering a burger and fries before i gave myself a chance to think about it! i'm glad you are liking your elliptical. i used to use one at the gym when i was training for a half marathon. then i bought one before our wedding, but after several months, it started giving me blisters. i changed my shoes, my socks, the footpads, but nothing helped and i ended up getting rid of it. i've been reading what people on here are saying about the gazelle and have been thinking about checking into that. i like that ammi said you can fold it and get it out of the way. my elliptical was huge and always in the way. anyway, i'm glad you're liking your elliptical!

lesley--:welcome2: glad you found us! and i agree with everything andie said about your husband and your weight loss/health. she said exactly what i was thinking in a better way then i would have said it.

annie--i'm so sorry about your brother. i never know what to say to someone at a time like this, but i hope that you are getting a lot of love and support from your family and you know you can get it here too! :hug:

misti--i saw you post something about brooks shoes.....i hate those shoes! i went to a store for runners and had them fit me for shoes when i did the half marathon a few years ago. they convinced me that brooks were the ones even though i said they were heavy. those shoes were horrible! they were way too heavy, slid off my heels and, like a fool, i took them for the marathon cuz they were broken in and i had been training in them, and, even though i had on the right socks and blister blocks, i got such bad blisters on the balls of my feet, that once i took my shoes off, i couldn't wear shoes for a whole 24 hours! i would never get them again! i like new balance too, and right now i have nike. much better then those brooks!

well, anyway, i think that's it for now. i've set myself up with a weekend challenge--i'd like to do my 4 mile WATP dvd and weights today and the 3 mile and an abs dvd tomorrow. i really want to challenge myself this weekend since most weekends i slack off and i think it's really affecting my weigh ins. so, i'd better go do that before i think of a reason to procrastinate! i'll let you know how i do! lori

Wezi: Thats nuts about the Christmas decorations. I love christmas too but its a little too early man. I always but ours up the day after Thanksgiving. I can't wait this year, DD should love it!
I am jealous that you ran in a 1/2 marathon! Thats one of my long long term goals is to be a runner & run in those sorts of things, not for competition but just to prove to myself that I can do it. I have a long long way to go before I could do that, I can barely jog now.
Good for you for challenging yourself this weekend. Thats alot of exercise!

Kayley – I am glad to hear that you are finally feeling better. It hurts to not get the paycheck, but you definitely need to take care of yourself.

Angel – About the bringing food home thing, I could be totally off the mark here, but it also might be one of the ways he knows how to show you he cares. If before you really appreciated his gifts of food but quickly changed to not wanting them, he might want to get you things but not know what you want. So you might need to nudge him in the right direction until he gets it. It sounds like you have your hands full with your DS!

Katt – I am so jealous – your own elliptical! They can be rough at first because you need to build up the leg muscles for them – they are slightly different then walking. The first time I got on one I did 5 minutes and though I was going to die. Now I can stay on for a long time, but it certainly didn’t start off that way.

Lesley – Welcome! That is a tough one that your husband is so insecure. He might just need some extra attention, and if it happens slowly without him noticing too much maybe he will become more comfortable with it. I have the problem that my BF actually prefers me to be fat, but I have decided I won’t let it stop me from doing what I need to do. I was totally miserable at my highest weight. Maybe if you explain more to your husband about how being overweight makes you feel then he will realize you need a change for you.

Andie – I got through my teen years by being a punk (ok, not true punk, but more new wave/goth, but I did shave my head once) so that I could have another reason for people to reject me. I am the same way – I have pushed people away for so long that I hardly know what to do now when I do make a friend. However, just like anything else it is a learning process and as long as my intentions are good and I try I think I can figure it out. :)

Ammi – I am glad you are able to have a day for a lie in. It is great to have a truly lazy day every once and awhile.

Valerie – I am so glad to hear the job is going well. I can’t imagine starting my day that early! I have no idea on the coveralls, as I have never needed anything like that. When I think about it my life is not at all messy in that way, except when I decide to paint something. When that happens it doesn’t matter what I wear it will land up absolutely all over me no matter what I do. It is a talent that I have.

Patti – Sorry to hear you have a cold! Hopefully you will feel better soon.

Lavendel – I hope your BF can come up with a better excuse than that! A little while ago my BF had to work really late, told me he would be home after I had gone to sleep, but when I woke up in the morning he wasn’t there. He hadn’t called or left a note or anything. It turned out he had fallen asleep at his desk and didn’t want to risk the drive. Still, you don’t not call when you aren’t going to come home! Men can be so thick at times – they just don’t understand what the problem is when their behavior is uncaring like that. Sorry you were so worried/angry and I hope he makes it up to you!

Michelle – Dealing with the doctor is a little different for me because I have so many choices. If I go to someone I don’t like or makes me uncomfortable, I don’t go back. I find someone else. I am truly lucky to have found both a great gynecologist and a regular doctor. When I need a referral I ask them first if they know anyone they would recommend. Also, you may think that you are the fattest person they have seen, but it probably isn’t the case. Even if it is, they work for you and should treat you with respect. Good luck at the doctor!

Annie – I am so sorry to hear about your brother. That must be so tough for your family right now. You are absolutely in my thoughts and prayers. It must be also hard that he had just recently gotten clean and sober and engaged. My heart goes out to his fiancée.

Jill – I am so sorry to hear that things have been such a struggle for you and that the scale hasn’t moved since you started your new exercise routine (which I am in awe of, btw, I have no idea how you get up so early to do that).

Misti – I think a lot of the being able to do things now has to do with exercise. It is hard to remember where I was at this weight on the way up, but I am pretty sure I didn’t have anywhere near the energy I do now. Whether or not it helps with the weight loss, exercise totally makes getting out and doing things possible.

Wezi – Way to go on structuring your weekend to push yourself. Weekends are the hardest for me too because I am out of my weekday routine. I need to get moving soon and get myself over to the gym!


Last night was really nice. My friend and I went to Red Lobster which worked out really well. She is on a low carb plan, so she was able to get fish and replace rice with vegetables. I actually treated myself and let myself get a dish with lobster, which I love but haven’t had in ages. It was really good and we talked and talked. In fact we left the restaurant and headed over to Starbucks and talked some more there. It was really fun. I got home close to midnight, but I didn’t feel to bad about leave my BF at home because he said he actually had just gotten home an hour before. Since I was out he was able to get his work that he would have had to go in on Sunday for done last night, so it all worked out.

Ring NSV for me!!! I am especially thrilled about this one because it has significance in the weight loss area. About 2 years ago I went to Sedona, AZ on vacation and it was another one with my BF’s parents where they had us walk all over the place and I was really pushed physically. Towards the end of that trip we stopped at this place where a lot of people were selling crafts and I decided to buy this pretty silver ring as a promise ring to myself to make positive changes in my life to get healthier. Well, some time ago the ring stopped fitting on my pinky and I had to stop wearing it because it was too small for my ring finger. This morning out of the blue I decided to try it on and it fit! I am so excited to be able to wear it again.

Everyone,

Thank you for all of the good thoughts and prayers for me and my family. I am hanging in there. I am having back surgery on Tuesday so hopefully I will be feeling much better physically. One thing that really has me thinking about my brother passing away is that perhaps he had this happen in part because of all the prescription drugs etc. I don't know but it is really making me want to take better care of my body. So a postitive has already happened. Thanks again all of you are so sweet. Congrats to the loosers and I love to see all the NSV's.
Hugs and blessings to you all,
Annie

Hi everybody

Wow it is 10 AM and already I have 140 minutes of water aerobics in!

Andie, I did see the challenge that you are doing and thought about starting with that one! I didn't know you could bring your points with you though when you go to the next one! That's great! It is neat how the site tallies points for you!

Wezi I certainly share your opinion about the Brooks shoes! I too went to a store and had them fitted. They were so hard inside I went and got those foam inserts... then had to go buy extra arch supports even though the shoes were supposed to be especially for low arches. Then the toes came out of both of them. I am still wearing them but I think I need to go just invest in another pair, as my feet are always hurting. I have plantar fascitis and bone spurs so I bought these thinking I was getting something really good. Never again! They weigh a TON!! They feel like they have lead in the soles.

And Nancy, I agree completely about the exercise. It certainly makes a difference, and I am amazed at how much more I can do now than when I started.

Annie, this must be so hard to have the back surgery right now when of course you want to be with your family. I will be praying!!!

Well now that I have worked out so hard I am going to crawl back into bed with coffee and something to eat!! Everyone have a blessed day.

Hi :wave: I am back after a long absence. No good reason for being gone. Just generally struggling and feeling down. I have been skipping my WW meeting and I think I may be fairly close to my starting weight again. ARG! :mad: No one's fault but my own though. I am working on re-focusing (again) and am planning to get back to WW this week. I have decided to switch my weigh-in days from Sat. morning to Wed. during my lunch hour. I went to that meeting once and liked it because it was smaller and more personal plus the leader spends equal time talking about Core as she does points. Since I am trying to go in the Core direction, that is good for me. Other than my weight struggles everything is pretty much the same. One potential change is I may be going back to school. I have been thinking of getting my MBA and have gone to a couple of information sessions. I think it would be hard, but I could do it. Plus my company will pay 80% of the cost so that is a great benefit. Anyway, it's just something I am considering.

Annie - I am so very sorry for your loss. Please know my thoughts are with you and your family. :hug:

Ammi - From the looks of your ticker, you are still going strong! I am so glad to see that. You inspire me! :)

Kayley - I am glad to see you back posting again. I had not realize your fiance had lost so much weight himself. He must be a great source of support for you. That is wonderful!!!

Nancy/Andie - Your comments on pushing people away because of the fat hits home. Basically, I avoid situations for the plain and simple reason that I don't want to be SEEN at this weight.

Well, that's about it for me for personals. But I just wanted to say "Hi" to all the "regulars" that I see are still here....Misti, Valerie, Jill, Patti, Sharon, and many more I am sure I missed. And also a big "Hello" to all the newcomers that have joined since I have been away. Hope you all have a great weekend. :)

Annie - I am glad that something positive has come out of everything. I will definitely be thinking of you on Tuesday and wondering how you are doing. I hope all goes well and the surgery heals the pain.

Misti - I forgot to mention how great your pictures look. What a difference!

Xena - It is good to see you again. Sorry to hear you haven’t been feeling so great. Are you near Austin? If so, could you get into the UT Austin MBA program? I have actually considered moving there for it (if I got accepted of course) since it is #1 for accounting. If your company is paying for it 80%, that is an amazing opportunity. I have considered grad school here, but both Stern and . .? I can't remember, but it would cost something outrageous like 60K and I can't possibly afford it unless I could get it paid for. I guess it also depends on what your long term career goals are.

I just got back from the gym and am feeling good. I hope everyone is having a good weekend.

Xena -- Welcome back! Don't give up on yourself! Welcome back here!

This conversation about not wanting to go out when overweight hits home here too. I sucked it up and did it, but I remember cringing inside frequently. I lived in Asia for 4 months weighing around 280 and I felt even fatter there -- very few people in China and Japan are that overweight.

On the flip side, now I feel as if a figurative as well as literal weight has been lifted and am MORE inclined to be social and go out and do things and meet new people. Not only do I feel better and am stronger and CAN do more, but I just feel more confident!

Hiya everyone .. wow this has moved fast .. okee .. time for personals ...

KAYLEY - Great to hear you are feeling better .. tonsilitis is the pits isnt it?? I had mine out when I was 21 (They lie about the ice cream & jelly cos I couldnt eat anything cold at all rofl). Kayley its great you have a live in inspiration lol ... Im sure he is a great help when you reach those hurdles that seem insurmountable :) Great work on the High impact workout!! I have thought of doing Yoga too .. just not sure about it yet lol ..

ANGEL - I was telling my hunny about how many on here have issues with their hubby not being 100% behind you cos of their own issues about the fear of them finding someone else .. and he surprised me just gave me a look and said nothing rofl .... that look said it all really .. apparently HE feels the same!! Never would of thought my hunny had a jealous bone in his body rofl ... I know Im terrible, but that is because of past relationships which I am getting a handle on, but he always seemed so secure with everything I never thought of him being concerned about me doing anything ... isnt it funny when you think you know someone so well and they confuse you like that lol .. I doubt if I would ever wear what I regard as sexy clothes .. but some of the things he regards as sexy I think are just casual rofl ... still .. I do like lingerie and would like to get a few pieces of that .. Ive always wanted some nice sexy lingerie .. but never had the body for it ... still nice underwear and bedwear would be nice for me .. for him to enjoy too lol.

NANCY - The gym is an interesting place to go with a friend on her birthday lol ... but great job on expanding your friends, Im sure that makes you feel a lot better about doing things :) WTG on your meal out .. and an especially big WOO HOO for you being able to get the ring on again .. Im sure that makes it a very special one for sure :)

RAVEN - Hope you get a good sleep ... I find that as I do my main exercise late at night (usually between 10-midnight lol) if I sit down for half an hour and then have a warm rather than hot shower I can sleep really well.

MICHELLE - Great about the shoes!! Im sure your feet will love you for them :)

PATTI - Glad to hear you are feeling better .. and your FFM visits are going great you are doing so well!!

LESLEY - Sorry I didnt welcome you sooner .. its great to see you on the boards and Im sure you will find all the help and support and inspiration you need on your new weight loss journey :) Well done!

AMMI - I would love for you to borrow my scales lol .. I was just saying to Scoot yesterday "are you sure the scales are working right??" He didnt understand why I wasnt believing them .. but yesterday I started off having a fat day .. even after I weighed myself and saw the 4lb loss .. its just when I was getting dressed I spotted my reflection in the mirror and just about cried .. YUCK! So what started out to be a very positive day had a little of a downturn when I saw myself cos I started the feeling of a fat day approaching ... but I decided to ignore that feeling lol .. it sorta worked lol .. The elliptical is gonna be something I really need to get used to ... unfortunately the arm pole keep hittin the boobs lol ... but I will keep at it a little more each day :)

VAL - Great to see you on the boards .. wtg on your new scale figure :) Im sure that makes the job an even better thing to do lol ...

LAVANDEL - Sorry your BF gave you such a scare, I hope things are a little more settled now :)

MICHELLE - Hopefully you have caught up on your sleep now?? Its terrible when your system gets all out of whack isnt it? As for the doctor question .. I dont go to one if I can help it lol .. but when your health is at stake I think those self-conscious issues need to be conquered. Good luck :)

ANNIE - I am so sorry for your loss, esp so close to an operation for your back .. as if there wasnt enough stress over the op. I send loving thoughts to you and your family at this time. Huggies.

JILLY - Great to see that you are getting your emotions regarding the scales out rather than bottling them up. And fantastic that you are not letting that stop your journey. After seeing so many others on here hitting those stalling plateaus I am starting to dread the weigh ins now .. knowing that after 4.5 months that I must be getting to where a plateau is .. I have expected it sooner, so now its a week by week thing I think lol ..

SHARON - Great to see the 5 thankfuls :) I think they are lovely ones .. esp the mouse and the walking in the leaves (love to do that too!)

ANDIE - WTG and welcome to the 280s! I have a fear of eating out still too ... lol .. actually I really enjoyed my lunch yesterday and it gave me an idea of my portions too ... good luck on your night out with the family too :)

LORI - Know the feeling about the Xmas things making an appearance ... We were in the supermarket yesterday and the XMas puddings were on the shelves already!! (I hate Xmas pudd lol), I enjoy Xmas .. but prefer to not see all the hoopla until December really .. its when they start playing XMas carols in November that I really get miffed lol .... by the time we are 2 weeks into December I never want to hear another Cmas Carol ... good reason to stay out of town and listen to MP3s or CDs. Well done on your goal for the weekend ... Im sure you can do it :) Well done on the running .. that isnt really something I am willing to do .. unless Im being chased by someone rofl.

XENA - Its LOVELY to see you back again!! Great job on not giving up and getting back on track again .. its good that you have options with your WW meetings times ... dont be a stranger :)

Well .. not much to add .. I didnt end up getting back on the elliptical last night ... I was so tired from the week .. I also got a distressing email yesterday .. a good friend of mine (in fact the first friend I made on the internet about 6 years ago!) died in her sleep on the 1st. She had such a bad few years recently .. with divorce and a battle with cancer which she had beaten. A few weeks ago she was in icu with pneumonia complications but recovered from that and was sent home ... I had an email in my box from just over a week ago from her that I meant to answer but got too busy and now I get this email from her brother letting me know she has died, I felt so guilty for not replying when I should have, I knew that she looked forward to me contacting her and keeping in touch, but I just got busy and kept putting it off ... she was only in her 40s .. I suppose that at least now she will hopefully be in a happier and healthier place ... I dont know why she died yet, her brother didnt say ... but its still such a blow to have lost her .. for 6 years we have written and rung each other, not always regularly .. but at least every 4-6 weeks. I saw her through a really messy separation and divorce .. she saw me through a split with my second fiance and meeting my hunny and the hassles and worries with the shop when we bought it .. as well as with the issues with my daughter .. then she got cancer and it was a more constant contact, although as it was a brain tumour she had a harder time with communication but she fought it and started to get better last year .. then a couple of months ago she started getting sick and got pneumonia which then had complications and ended up her being in hospital.. oh Im just bummed really. She always made me feel so important .. you know?? like I actually made a difference in someones life .. she was definitely an inspiration to me.. sorry for the downer peeps .. I just needed to get it out instead of bottling it up.

Gotta go .. time to get some work done .. need to keep my hands busy right now .. I think I have discovered an emotional trigger now .. its not one I have had to face very often so I never thought of it as a trigger.

Huggies and hi to everyone I may have missed.

Xena, welcome back!!! You have been missed!!! :hug: Never, ever give up!!!

Nancy, thanks for the compliments on the pictures. I think I really just put that all together to encourage myself since I am not losing weight lately. But I was back at 231 this morning so maybe soon another one will go!!

And oh Heather I know what you mean! When I lived in the Philippines I was heavy too, though not nearly as much as I had gained this time. Most of the people there are so small that I really stood out in a crowd.. I mean besides what I did anyway being so fair skinned and 5'9" tall :lol:

Katt, glad you found out your guy is a bit insecure too! And GREAT idea to get some sexy stuff for just HIM to see and enjoy!!! :wink:

Hugs to everyone!

Xena glad to see you back!Thanks Katt i am feeling better!

:woohoo: i just did the 4 mile WATP dvd and my abs dvd!! :woohoo: my challenge to myself is half done!!!

nonames--sorry, i should have been clearer--i DIDN'T run the half marathon. when my friend erica and i were training, our original plan was to walk a mile, jog a mile. well, we got to the point in our training when we were jogging for 3 minutes and walking 3, and one day we both just looked at each other during the jog and said "what the **** are we doing?" and stopped jogging. :) we actually got to 16 minute miles walking and finished the half in 4 hours and 5 minutes. we would have finished under 4 hours, but i got really dehydrated at the end and had to slow down. erica's husband and his friend did the whole marathon, and ran over half of it--they were awesome! and for the next two days, all of us were in awe of ourselves and just kept saying "i can't believe we did a marathon!!!" :cool: it is a really great feeling and if you do one, i'll cheer you on. i was thinking of training for another one with someone, but she is moving now and i don't know if i'm motivated enough to do one by myself. the best and most motivating part of the first one was that it was in hawaii! :)

nancy--wtg on the ring nsv! that is so cool!

misti--i thought at one time i was getting plantar fascitis also. my feet always hurt first thing in the morning when i got out of bed, but after i walked around for awhile, they would be ok. i used to do massage and i remembered from class that elevating your heel in your shoes helps. i can't remember why though. anyway, i just put heel inserts in my shoes and my feet have felt great since. the pain went away in a few weeks and i haven't had any problems in more then a year or two. i don't know if it would work with bone spurs too, but i just thought i'd let you know what i had tried. btw--awesome job getting in 140 minutes of water aerobics this morning! that's practically my whole exercise total for the week!

katt--i'm so sorry to hear about your friend! it's always so hard when it's so unexpected. i hope you don't put too much guilt on yourself for the unanswered email. my husband did the same thing when his grandma passed. we'd been meaning to go visit her and just had been so busy we hadn't made it, and then his mom calls us one morning and tells us she passed during the night. he felt so bad about not seeing her before, he was really depressed about it for awhile. anyway, i just hope you don't do that to yourself....:hug: to you!

anyway, gotta run! i'm having a night out with some friends. we call it a "two moms and a nanny night" (cuz their both moms and i feel like one!). we haven't done it for awhile, so i'm excited! see everyone tomorrow! hopefully, i'll have good news that i finished my challenge to myself! lori:D

Thanks Lori ... Im not going to let the loss of Gail get me depressed ... she was too inspirational to remember her in that way ... Im gonna think of her watching over me and keep pushing myself knowing that she would be cheering me on :)

As its 4 months down on my journey (16 weeks) I have added updated piccys of my before and now .. I need to go buy some new bras .. but I want to wait til Xmas lol .. so they will just have to sag and not fill the ones Ive got for a little longer rofl. But other than that I think there is a positive change :) Still getting used to my lighter hair colour and its been over a month rofl.

Huggies all

Katt... WOW! You THINK there is a change? :woohoo: There is a HUGE change... you look SO much smaller in the second set of photos! GREAT job!! :cheer:

Also, yes I agree...the hair color is very flattering and it looks so soft and healthy!!!

And LOL I sure understand about the boob and bra problem! :lol3: But hey if they sag a bit, they sag. We'll get there!!! :yes: we will!

oh Katt so sorry to hear about your friend.prayers go out to you

Annie -- Sorry to hear about your brother!!! *HUGS*

Wezi -- That is crazy! But I will have to say that one night we went riding around and seen that ( mind you this was BEFORE Halloween) two houses had their Christmas Decorations up!!

Katt -- Sooo sorry to hear about your friend!! I have a friend that she too has been battling cancer! *hugs for you*

Kaley -- Me and Amanda are semi broke too!! I've been the only one working for a while. She has had the worst luck finding a job. But as of January we will both be working college students. I can smell the stress from here!! GL with everything and don't give up on the weight loss!!

Melissa -- Hey there!! *waves* I'm Erika Leigh. Don't guess I've seen you around before but I can't wait to get to know you!!

Lesley -- Welcome to 3FC!! I'm kinda new to this group but they are some awesome motivational ladies. Just jump on in!!

Angel -- Hope that things are going well for you!!

As for me -- Nothing really new here. I just haven't gotten my walk in today. I will tonight before I hit the bed. Somehow...the counting calorie thing it really not working for me. I just can't get it up..( help and tips are welcome!)
Maybe I'll get to get some pics up soon of the apartment we are in now and then after the move the new one! It's gonna look messy because we are in the process of packing and i'm sure that you've all been there!~
** Speaking of pictures -- I posted a few in the picture thread!! Now you can know what I look like. Amanda too for that matter, but she has changed alot in the last few months!**

Wishing you girls the best of the weekend! Make it a great one!

~!* Erika Leigh *!~

Katt! :hug: :hug: I am so sorry to hear about your friend. You are in my prayers. /o\

Very cute piccys Erika :) Sorry to hear about your friend too. My oldest nephew (just turned 11) has just had a bone marrow transplant in his fight against Leukemia .. he was originally diagnosed when he was 5, had a transplant and all the chemo etc, we were given the 5 year remission all clear last Xmas .. then about 4-5 months ago he started getting sick again .. fortunately as my SIL had already been through it once she was able to identify the signs a lot sooner than last time ... but this time has been a lot harder .. the transplant had to be put back twice due to him not being well enough .. in fact the doctors would have preferred to leave it longer, but it reached a point where it was do it now or there wont be a chance later. He is still in hospital of course .. we wont know until about Cmas whether this one has taken and he is doped up on morphine all the time to counteract the pain .. my mum is going down at the end of the month to help out my brother and SIL with the kids so they can have a little bit more time to do other things (including sleep) (there are 3 other kids almost 17, almost 9 and almost 5).

Its a case of positive thinking and never thinking that whatever the doctors are doing for him that they will be successful, no negative thoughts are allowed to be sent his way .. there was once about 6 weeks ago that my mum rang me to tell me he may not make it .. the doctors had given him a 25% chance of surviving the weekend ... he founght through that and I warned my mother not to think the worst ... when I was born I got very sick not long after and the docs gave me 24 hours at the most .. like I said to mum .. Im too darn stubborn to listen to the bad news and Im sure my nephew is a fighter too .. after all .. we have the same blood runnin through us :)

I have just had a lovely dinner (lunch) ... its a little late (its now just after 3pm lol), but it was worth waitin for .. yummy fresh fish sauted in a mix of a little olive oil (extra virgin), lemon, garlic and mixed spices, with steamed broccoli, zucchini (courgette), and baby beans, oh and carrots .. Scoot and Ash had mushrooms too (Im allergic to mushrooms & tomatoes), it really was a yummy lunch .. and I had a glass of red grapefruit juice too. I could get used to dinners like this lol .. I do find it easier deciding on meals when I am cooking it for everyone else and not just for me ...

I still dont hit my 1800-2000 cal mark on a regular occurence .. actually .. in the last week I have only hit it once rofl ... today Im not at 1000 yet either ... but I may have some toast for dinner .. its nice to have a light dinner I think .. its only really on the days that I do a lot of housework/exercise that I worry about hitting the 1800-2000 mark ... on the "lazy" days .. Im happy to hover round the 1200-1500.

Better go .. I have this cross stitch to finish before Scoot goes so he can take a piccy of it lol ..

Well I'm not even hitting 1000 calories a day!!

What is with me?

Erika, I read your questions about your food intake, etc., in the other thread and also looked at your Fitday... and just want to say I agree with the advice the other ladies have given you. You definitely need to be on a more healthful eating plan. I see that they offered to give you some very detailed advice... my recommendation would be to let them assist as they have offered. I wish you the best of success!!

WHEW everyone, I am SO sore from the shallow water aerobics this morning. LOL this new teacher is GOOD and really gives a workout! :) I am learning lots of new exercises, some of which really strettttttttttttch the muscles!

There is supposed to be a super good teacher who does the Tues/Thurs night deep water ones. I can't go on Tuesday as I want to go to my Bible study... besides this class is not until 8 PM, yuck. But I could manage it on Thursday nights; just hate to go that late. Will have to decide.

Hope everyone has a happy Sunday tomorrow!

Blessings to all

good evening ladies!
Just a quick note before I head off to bed. I was suppose to be off tomorrow from work but I got called in, oh well, it will be overtime!
I really didn't feel like exercising today, kept telling myself that I could take a break. But I had a few pieces of candy (*tmi*which gave me diarrhea) and I felt like I had to do some exercise. I did 70 mins! Now I feel proud of myself for just doing it & I physcially feel better too.
Good news is that DH said I could go buy some new shoes tomorrow! I have been having to make do with my old ratty sneakers & the just aren't cutting it. So I get to buy some new ones tomorrow. Course this is after he bought him some today. lol

Katt: great pictures! You have made amazing progress! I plan on taking a current picture when I hit 25 lbs gone.
So sorry to hear about losing your friend. Thats so hard when its sudden. Don't feel guilty for not responding to her email sooner. Life gets busy sometimes. I'm sure she knew you loved her.

Too sleepy to do anymore personals tonight. I'll be on tomorrow since I have to work. Have a good night everyone!

Hey ladies! I just wanted to say thank you to everyone that is giving me support on the exercise goal. I havent worked out in a really long time but Im really enjoying myself alot. It is still super cold here but it isnt snowing yet.

Ammi- To answer your question No im not close to Michelle. We are a long distance from one another. She is up at the tip top and im down at the bottom.

For all of you that have lost weight this week I want to say Congrats. Everyone thats meeting their exercise goal- Good job.

Im going to hit the hay now. Im so tired....Long day...Talk to you all tomorrow.

~*~Raven~*~

Hey everyone-

NANCY~That is wonderful you have a great group of doctors. I have never actually had a REALLY nasty dr. or anything. They just tend to not listen to me. Like I had major hypothyroidism and they were just telling me I was lazy and they wouldn't even do blood tests on me! But overall most of them are nice. Thats great you went out to Red Lobster with your friend. Congrats on your ring NSV! :)

ANNIE~My prayers are with you and your family. And for your back surgery.:hug:

Xena~Welcome back! Your company paying for 80% of your MBA sounds awesome! I would go for it!

KATT~I am SLOWLY getting back on a normal schedule. I am such a night owl...but my body doesn't like the night owl stuff! And the Dr. anxiety I just get nervous. But I HAVE TO GO! I am so sorry to hear about your friend passing away. :hug: :hug:

LORI~Congrats on doing the 4 mile WATP!:cheer2:

Melissa~Sounds like you are doing great getting exercise in. Kepp up the good work!

Erika~Hope you get that walk in! Great pics! Nice to see who we are all talking to. I need to post more pics.

KATT~LOVE the pics! You are doing fabulous! :cp: :cheer2: I didn't know that about your nephew. He will be in my prayers!

MISTI~You are doing great with the water aerobics! You make me want to go swimming! Guess its too cold up here for that! We need an indoor pool up here!:lol:

ANDIE~sorry you have to work on your off day. But overtime can be nice!:)
I hear ya about candy making you sick. That happened to me when I decided to drink some coke. I was soooooo sick! Yay you get new shoes too! I love mine. I suggest New balance if you can find some. Sometimes they are way too expensive for me. But I went to shoes.com and they had a nice pair on sale.

RAVEN~Glad you are enjoying the exercise. I find it just makes me feel so much better. I bet it is getting cold down there! The high up here was 5 today!:lol:


Well thanks for all of you letting me vent about doctor anxiety. I was just getting nervous because I am heading down to Anchorage next Sunday. I am sure everything will be fine. The plus side is...the hotel has a workout room! I am so happy because I can actually work out on actual equipment! We will be there for a week for DH work conference and of course all of my Dr. appointments. Oh and I get to see trees!:lol: When you live in a place with no trees...you will miss trees! Well I hope all of you have a great day!:hug:

Hey guys
Sorry I havent been around much. I just can't believe how busy I have been. I am back on South Beach since Wednesday and am doing pretty good. Yesterday was a struggle since my sis and I decided we would make egg rolls and pizza rolls for the freezer. Well we made 144 pizza rolls (egg rolls with a pizza type filling) and 226 egg rolls. Needless to say I had 2 of each however that was my lunch and my supper. Not quite SB friendly but back on track today. It took us 8 hours to do it so no real exercise. I'm sure I burned calories though cause I was SO exhausted by the time I got to sit down! :lol:

I have to attend a staff meeting for 3 hours tonight so there goes the aquafit for today. I start my new job tomorrow which will be wonderful!

TOM is trying to come regardless of the fact that it isnt time and I am on pills to regulate it. That never happens so I am not sure why. I'm usually 100% on sched for like the past 15 years. Once a year or so I am late but never early!

Annie and Katt ~ :hug: So sorry for your losses :(

:welcome: to all the newbies!

well, my friend is on her way to pick me up. We are heading to the pharmacy (only store open on sunday here.... weird little province that it is *L*)

Girls gotta shop!

Good morning, everyone! Happy Sunday! Hope all of you can stay OP today! :woohoo:

Michelle, yes, I really enjoy the swimming and water aerobics. This past summer when the outdoor pool in my apt complex was open I went several times a week. But I was really happy to find this gorgeous indoor/outdoor pool about 20 mins away from me. And I am enjoying the deep water stuff... our apt pool is only 4 feet deep so had to stick with shallow water aerobics. I've only been going on Sat morning but would like to go more often.

Hugs to all

just had to get on to say.......i did it! i just finished with the 3 mile tape and weights dvd! :D i can't believe i got all that exercise in this weekend! i'm keeping my fingers crossed that the scale will show a difference on tuesday. i guess if it doesn't, there's always next week. and i have to say that i feel so good! happy, in a good mood, ready to get busy with the next task on the list (cleaning the house--boring!!).

hey katt--your pictures look so great!!! you can totally tell a difference! you should be so happy with yourself! you are really motivating me to get moving with this exercise! way to go! :carrot:

well, i gotta go grab some breakfast and get the house cleaned. my mom and aunt have been in branson for the week vacationing and are stopping by this afternoon. hope everyone has a great rest of the weekend and i'll see you all tomorrow! lori

Yay Wezi! Good for you! Great job!

I caught the name "Branson." I spent a lot of time hanging out there when I was in college, except then it was a one main street town with one Dairy Queen down at the end of the street. :) I went to College of the Ozarks my first two years of college (except back then it was School of the Ozarks as it had started out as a high school, and I was there the year the last graduating class of hs seniors went through and the first class of college juniors... who graduated my sophomore year! Brings back memories. :)

I also grew up around the St. Louis area... in Gray Summit and Villa Ridge and out in there!

Good Sunyday morning everyone. :wave:

Nancy - No, I do not live near Austin. I live in the Dallas-Ft. Worth metroplex which is quite a bit north of there. You are right that UT-Austin has a great business school though, particularly accounting. I am fortunate that in the metroplex there are several universities to choose from. I am leaning towards UT-Dallas because it is only 15 minutes from my office and 20-25 minutes from my house. It's also got all the right accreditations so that is good. You're right about it being expensive to get an MBA. At UTD, if you are a resident of Texas, it costs you around $24,000. I am not sure if that includes books or not. I looked at some of the books that would be required and some of them cost $300!!!!! Man, things sure have gotten alot more expensive since I got my bachelor's degree!!! But since I will be doing it part time, it will take me a minimum of 3 years to finish (probably more) so that spreads the cost out, not to mention the tuition assistance I will get from my company. You should check your company's policy. Alot of company's offer it as a benefit, they just don't advertise it very well. I guess they are afraid someone will actually USE the benefit!!! :lol:

Heather - Thanks for the welcome back and the encouragement. :hug:

Katt - I am so sorry to hear about the sudden loss of your friend. And my thoughts are with your sick nephew. :hug:

Misti - Thanks to you too for the welcome back and encouragement. I see you are still rocking with the water aerobics. It's great you have that deep water class to work you out! I never could find a deepwater class anywhere near where I lived. :(

Patti - :wave: From the looks of your ticker you are making progress. Good job!

wezi - Well done on the 4 mile WATP! I didn't know they even had a 4 mile one. I own the 1,2, and 3 miles ones. Right now 2 miles is about the most I am doing. I'd love to work up to 4 though! How long is the workout and is it much different from the other WATP's?
mechelle - I understand your doctor anxiety well. I was so scared to go back to my gyno after having gained 100 pounds in a year. The good doctors will want to help you, not judge you.


As for me, I went shopping at Lane Bryant yesterday for some new work clothes and for an outfit to wear to my grandparent's 60th anniverary party later this month. After that outing, I KNOW I have to be back to my starting weight because the size 24 pants were too small. :eek: It was so distressing. I was down to a 22 and apparently I am now in a 26. I didn't try the 26's though. I just bought the 24's and am going to look forward to fitting into them in a just a couple of weeks.