Hi everyone! Okee .. its a new day for me .. and while I havent forgotten Im not going to let it get to me ..
Thank you ladies for your lovely words .. I do try to not let things get to me .. had a lot of years of experience lol .. but sometimes when your defences are down it just sort of catches you off side and usually I just shut up and suck it up and stuff it down somewhere to fester .. but Im learning to let it out so I can clear it out.
Wanna - Oh hun ... I HAVE told my mum .. not just for myself .. but defending my daughter when she did that to her too .. (and yes .. now my daughter has food issues too) ... when I went up yesterday I found out she has mentioned to my nephew (16) he needs to lose weight too (OMG!). Unfortunately I didnt find that out until my mother had gone otherwise I would have made comments about that too!! He is quiet and shy so it hits him badly.
I know my mother means well .. and I dont think she hears what she says .. or at least the way that she says it. Thats why my defences are usually up .. she has gotten better with me .. but occasionally it still have them down and the shots get through. My daughter wont really eat in front of her now so we tend to support each other when we see the comments hit (as she did last night when we got home before she left for home).
But as I said .. today is another day ...
Finally got my dress decided on ... Im actually getting it made to measure from the US (best deal for the one I want lol) ... and now the colour is sorted .. hunny wanted white (ick!) .. I wanted Ivory (hunny doesnt like that lol) .. so the only other colours were pink (I would look like a big candy floss lol) .. or the champagne (I call it old gold) .. soooo Champagne wins
Got the dresses for my best friend and niece (were $225 .. got them for $30!! as they were last season!!) .. and my sister (matron of honor) has a lovely deep purple dress ... so that is a good thing sorted ...
My daughter is giving me away ... and from some of the hints said yesterday she is going to be in top hat & tails! My granddaughter will be scattering flowers .. and my grandson will stand up the front with my hunny as a pageboy
Wedding cakes (yes 2 lol) .. will be chocolate (my choice) .. and a buttery sultana cake (neither of us like traditional fruit cake .. but hunny loves this one lol) .. so the "fruit" one will be our main cake .. the other will be part of the dessert course
And one of my oldest friends will be decorating them for me.
So those are all of the positives from yesterday I forgot to remember .. Im excited again .. and while I am fighting the urges not to eat anything I have had a shake for breakfast .. we have plans to go up town for lunch ... and I have my stir-fry for dinner
My hunny just has to remind me to eat it lol.
So tomorrows weigh in will be what it will be .. TOM is still with me .. just wont go away .. so I dont know what will happen at the weigh in .. but whatever does .. I just just roll with it and carry on
everyone!