Misti in Seattle, I agree with you totally on the no dieting thing and watching what you eat. I have had my share of pounds dropped by doing just that, it is just a matter of sticking to it.
I wanted to say, also, my sister is 120 pounds and tiny, she eats over 2,000 calories a day, we figured it up not long ago, because I told her she eats like a horse and never gains. However, she has a very physical job and she works two jobs three days a week, so never could anybody say what another person needs to take in and I agree with you Misti, it really is so individualized that it is something everybody has to find on their own.
My sister has always eaten that way, but she is active. I am very lucky too, to have found a doctor that isn't critical, because, oh, I've had them. This one I have now, is more about exercise and just reducing what you are eating. He has taken a lot time to sit with me and go over nutrition and exercise. He is a great doctor.
It honestly does work, once you remove whatever it is causing you to eat in the first place besides hunger
I have been doing the WW online just so I have a consistent place to log my stuff and I am using the Volumetrics technique of loading up with veggies to fill in the meal. It worked great for me a few years ago and the pounds just dropped and I didn't count one single calorie back then, I just became aware of what I was eating.
Just remember it is how active you are, too, hence the calories in/calories out. If you sit all day at work then you will need less, but if you run for an hour after working hard all day, then yeah, you might need the 1,800 or 2,000 like my tiny lucky skinny sister.

She is a painter for the board of education, by the way three days a week at night, for 8 hours, and has to move all the furniture. She was already thin, but she dropped ten pounds.
She is still in Kentucky and she cooks like we grew up, everything fried or cooked in bacon grease and her cholesterol is still normal. God Bless her for pulling it off.
