Desper8: yes we have talked about it.
He hates that years before we got back together I prayed and received the baby's name--Seth--in prayer.
Mainly because I've been wrong about things in prayer before and he's scared of me making the same mistakes I'm sure.
He doesn't want that to be part of our lives because of the last outcome. He tells me I'm not rational or logical. But my prayer was basically if we had a baby together--his name would be Seth. We weren't even really talking at the time of the prayer. So logic is "if p then q" so since p happened q has to follow. I feel I am thanking God. He feels I'm acting crazy.
there are deeper issues. He's afraid I'll do crazy things due to my prayer life, he's stressed because of the teenager.
He was really upset I named our first Seth and he was so angry , he says the name Seth reminds him of how upset I made him; but that's circular logic to me because we made a deal I could name the next one Seth and he's mad he "had" to make that deal with me.