I hear all of you; while I don't entertain any grand ambitions of reaching under 200 pounds by January 1st with the holidays in the way, I'm looking forward to a healthy Xmas with my sister. My parents are lovely but they have so much baking, etc. that it is hard to eat healthy, and they get mad if you don't eat it. My sister and I have always been more healthful (her more than me) and we're spending it together this year, so it will be awesome and full of veggies
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At Thanksgiving I went to the second family dinner but restricted myself to some turkey and veggies at that one, no potatoes, no gravy. I think this strategy worked well and recommend it for anyone going to lots of holiday dinner parties. Lean meat and veg and a small treat, if anyone says anything just smile at them and share that you are doing your best to look your best. Or you could just borrow a quote from Dollhouse and say "I am always my best" with a bland look on your face, that'll get some stares
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