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Old 07-17-2008, 11:51 AM   #10
nelie
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I'm 33 and know I'm not ready and probably never will be. When I was in my early 20s, I think some hormones kicked in and for a very short period of time, I actually wanted a child. It only lasted a couple days but it was a weird feeling. For me, I'm basically on the fence and my husband is basically on the fence. If my husband wanted a child, then we would have one (or most likely adopt one).

I do think both of you do have to be on the same page and maybe you can set some goals to meet before you start trying for a child (save a certain amount of $$, lose x amount of lbs, etc). Since you know your fiancee isn't ready, then you aren't wasting time trying to reach those goals.
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