Unfortunately . . . that happens all over and not just on big bulletin board sites like this one either . . . you have to be ultra careful what you say to others through e:mail at work too.
In some ways it is easier around a site like this -- that's why the BB-Fairy invented Emoticons . . .
. . . amazing how a well placed smilie can soften many a blow.
BTW . . . I really have to agree with LaurieDawn . . . you should try to find a nice way to bring it up to her.
At 3FC . . . if you ever have a misunderstanding or feel that someone is being rude or unfair, please contact a Moderator -- that's what we are here for; to try to keep things ticking along smoothly. But we can't help, if we don't know. If there's a particular post that bothers you, please use the "Report Post" button -- that's the little red exclamation point at the bottom left of each post.
Thanks Chickies . . . hope everybody is having a great moving and shaking kind of day . . .