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Old 03-08-2008, 07:34 PM   #3
Justwant2Bhealthy
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J ~ you have the perfect opportunity to get to know him better, right in front of you, before taking the plunge. Sit down and make a list of things you could start a conversation about (esp relating to the gym), then make a point of talking to him at least a bit each time you go there.

My main concern would be if you jumped in too early; he says NO and then you might not want to go to the gym anymore becuz of embarrassment. By taking it slow, that gives you time to work on your self-image as you get to know him better.

Over the next while, you will see how he reacts to you; friendly or not. You will also get to know the real him as a friendly acquaintence first. That way you can be sure whether you really like him or not too. Then take it from there ...


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