I relayed your story to my boyfriend and he said some non repeatable things, but the gist was that real men do not treat women that way and to not let them get to you. They are obviously too pathetic to find someone their own size to bully. They would not dare say anything like that some some big guy who could whoop their butt. You're very pretty no matter what anyone says, and you look like you're doing awesome in your weight loss. 20 pounds!! Go you!

I am of the tendency to think men are immature and stupid...it sucks that the handful of men like these that moo'd at you ruin it for the intelligent caring ones. Chalk it up to them being stupid...your doing great don't let them get you down!

Hmm. I hope it wasnt my brother. Naw, he's a sweet boy, he wouldnt do that. He's been taught to have respect for women. :) You know some Marines, i noticed while i was in Cali, feel the need to portray a very macho tough guy sort of persona. But what i noticed about my brother was, he was MORE respectful. Even to the waitress at the restaurant by our hotel. So, it really pisses me off when these immature jerks give Marines a bad name. I remember once my brother when he was a younger teenager, talking about some girl and how "she was only good for one thing.." If you know what i mean. And my sister Cristy goes, What if someone said that about me? He got this sheepish look on his face, and he said, I'd kill them! I think he got the message. Anyway, I've never heard him say a disrespectful thing about a woman since, whether Cristy was there or not.


But thats HORRIBLE!!! You are a beautiful girl, no matter what. Besides, who are these guys to you? Nobody. You dont know them, you'll probably never see them again. The only thing that matters is your opinion of yourself. Even if thats not so good, thats still something you can work on, and so is your weight. They'll always be stupid.

I had some young guys OINK at me while they drove by really slow on a busy trendy shopping street some time ago. I was walking with my husband so I pretended not to hear them but it was embarasing.. but it really hurt.
I am so sorry they did this to you. You are beautiful and no one deserves for that to happen to them.

I wouldda turned right round and oinked back! :lol:

MEN are :ink: sometimes! :rolleyes:

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