cupcake - I understand about wanting men to look. It feels good. Sometimes it goes too far for me, though, and I realize that what I'm really craving is approval. Then I remind myself that the people who really matter already love me unconditionally, and that everything that I do (i.e., losing weight) is for ME.
Kim - I agree with you about confidence. No matter what size you are, it's the most attractive thing for any woman to wear. It can be a tough bugger to find, though
I had no idea that resurrecting this thread would hit such a chord among Chicks. *lol*