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Pattience 02-07-2014 02:59 AM
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Originally Posted by hhm6 (Post 4937988)
Hey guys,

Just thought I would update, there were quite a few comments under the post that got flamed responses, so I think the intent was directed at a weight issue. (But LOL at the other image!)

Quoting one of the comments "If you girls think you're actually HOT, now is the time to put it to the test, get into Drais without a cover charge, you're hot. Fatties no you can't pay off or -------- the bouncers to get in"

The other comments are quite vulgar, I almost feel like deleting these people on my Fb, since they aren't friends (more like acquaintances) and I have little respect for people who like this about other people. :( But it also makes me feel so relieved to not be around that industry when I'm working so hard to lose weight now.
Delete them.

vealcalf2000 02-07-2014 04:47 AM
Are these truly friends or "frienemies" who allow others to post things like that? When someone is a friend they love you for you and you'd have no doubts of their intentions.

I know you're young and going out is fun, but this doesn't sound fun at all if you have to wonder about the intentions of these people. Find a new group of friends and go out! Doesn't sound like you were much into clubbing, so why not find other things to do? Don't keep yourself in this negative situation!

hhm6 02-07-2014 04:44 PM
Yup I deleted them (mentioned it my last comment but it's on the previous page) Feels so MUCH better to not see that stuff anymore :)

Avezy44 02-08-2014 09:31 AM
hhm6 -- Unfortunately some people are super insensitive for reasons we can't understand. I used to sing professionally and would get "feedback" from random people everywhere about my appearance. I had an old man tell me after an open mic that I "would never get anywhere being as fat as I was" and at that point in time I was only 170lbs. Don't let them bring you down. It's definitely easier said than done but to look on the bright side.. You know what they are saying is unfair and hurtful so that automatically makes you a better person than them.


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