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If I really sat and thought about it I'm sure I could think of a bunch, but a few definite ones are
-wear a bikini this summer & look good in it. Sure I'll have some (hopefully faded) stretch marks, but considering how hard I've worked for this body, I'd like to show it off! *reminds self to do more ab toning* -ride on the back of my dad's motorcycle. He's owned his motorcycle for about 7 years, but I've always been too heavy to ride on the back of it. I'd really like to be able to go out on it! I'm sure I'll think of more and add them later! :) |
-Take some fabulous wedding pictures this summer, and then sit around picturing my ex's faces when they see them on Facebook :)
-Wear shorts for the first time in 4 years -Obviously, a bathing suit - The largest waterpark in the US is about an hour away from me and I want to go this summer! -Perform as a belly dancer without having to worry about covering up my arms and stomach -Wear a sexy Halloween costume |
This is a great thread!
I want to go to the doctor without feeling ashamed! Or without fearing a lecture about weight and healthy eating habits and exercise. I would like to feel confident enough to approach men, and think that I actually am good enough for one of them. It would be amazing to run into some old people from high school and them be amazed! Especially those popular girls and a few guys. You know how it is. When my best friend comes home from Denmark I want her to see a noticeable difference, the same goes for when my other good friend comes home from two years in Argentina. It would be kinda cool to go into my work (Forever 21) and be able to actually buy something not in the plus section! |
Capoiera and being 100% comfortable naked. If i reach those goals who knows what kind of shinanigans i'll get my self into!
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I totally agree with the bikini thing! I have 5 months until June and am hoping to be bikini ready by then!
Also my biggest thing that I dislike about myself is my arms and I want to be able to wear tank tops and not feel like a huge cow! I look forward to being able to walk 3 flights of stairs and not be soo exhausted and out of breath afterward. I also can't wait to feel confident, naked or in clothes, its a feeling I seldom feel anymore and I miss it! |
-I want to look good naked.
-I want to wear a bathing suit without any shame. -I want to go braless in a sundress. -I want my family/friends to be wowed the next time they see me. -I want to wear the cute clothes I bought ages ago but don't feel comfortable wearing. |
One of my biggest fantasies is to simply be able to go clothes shopping without feeling bad about myself afterwards. Can't wait for ultra cute clothes that I can actually look...good in.
Oh and like almost everyone else....BIKINI TIME! I dont even care really if I'm still a little jelly-like. I would just be happy to be "acceptable" in a bikini. This summer is the summer though. I WILL BE IN A BIKINI. It's definitely time for my debut, since i have NEVER, and I do mean NEVER have worn a bikini. In fact I have never ever even been slightly in the least bit good feeling in any swimsuit i have ever worn. ;c I have to change this! |
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there have been so many times where i have had to cover up my cute lacy tank with a hot and uncomfortable cardigan during the summer time because i didn't feel comfortable with my arms. |
1. I'm with everyone else on sporting a bikini!
2. Wear shorts during the summer and also when I work out - I can't remember the last time I was able to do this. 3. I just moved to Taiwan... I'd like to be able to shop at the clothing stores here! |
Hmm, this list could get very long... :)
1. I'd like to wow everyone when I see them this summer (I'm at school and won't be headed home until the end of May). I might have even gone so far as making it so only I can see pictures of me on facebook. Yep, I want there to be some serious transformation going down. 2. I want to be comfortable in clothes, I hate pulling at things, sucking in other parts, wishing I'd worn xyz instead of abc. I want to think that I look good and know that I'm not deluding myself. 3. I know I'm not going to get into a bikini, it won't look good, but I'm going to settle for a pair of shorts and a tank top. No more thunderous thighs and waggly arms, please. 4. I want to prove that I can be more than just the 'funny, fat one' or the girl 'who has such a pretty face if only...' But first, I think I need to prove it to myself. |
1. Be able to go to the river with my family and wear a BIKINI
2. Want to go out and play with the kids and be able to keep up with them 3. Be apart of the game and not sitting on the sidelines anymore! 4. Feel Sexy again!!! 5. Be a good example for my daughter and not pass my body images down to her! |
stella- I totally forgot to add that one to my list... I want to be able to do a boudoir photo shoot in sexy little outfits (or nothing!) for myself AND my husband... =] I want to have those pictures to look back at when I'm 60 and be able to say, "Damn, I was a hottie"!
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i want to dress my age....
I seriously have to dress like an old women and its so not cute.. (like the stretch jean pants) no offense to anyone but i just dont feel comfy in anything other then that and baggy shirts |
There is so many but one of the main ones I've been thinking about lately is...
1. Letting my bf pick me up! Which I plan to do when I weigh less than him but we will see....(He's only 135 at 5'10"!!) |
Stella- you stole mine haha... thats the only thing I can think of... My hairstylist and good friend is a photographer and when I get to goal were having a makeover/photoshoot
I want my legs to not rub together when I walk... thats all I'm asking for... I could then wear shorts...which I havent done in years... I dont think I'll ever wear a bikini... I wore them when I was fat... I've never had a confidence issue... but year seriously bad idea and I want to not be the fat friend... I've never had fat friends... Its always just been me..the token fat girl... I'm over that |
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