I weigh around 40 pounds more than my boyfriend and always have weighed more than him... he's my height (short for a guy), and of a very slender stature... wears a 29" waist in pants... It's altogether pretty lame being bigger than he is. Our friends make jokes like "Ooh I bet she can kick your *** man!" and sometimes, if we go to a get together and there's not enough seating, he tries to sit on MY lap - until I gripe at him and tell him that's not how it works. Then he says "Well, I'm the smaller one." So, yeah, I obviously cannot wait to weigh less than him. Potentially one of the biggest victories of them all. :P
I was bigger than my sweetie when we met. But then I naturally lost weight after the self-esteem boost of being loved and he gained it when I expressed said love through cooking Now he's about ten pounds heavier...which is a good thing since he's four inches taller!
Location: i live in the midwest , cornfields and cows.
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S/C/G: 215/210/165
Height: 5'10
When we first met I weighed about 25-30 lbs less than him and hes ver tall and skinny {6'4 and 160lbs}. he cant gain weight to save his life. seriously he eats dinner, then he eats reeses and kitkats like theyre going out of style, then he eats on average of three b owls of cereal before bed , with about a half gallon of chocolate milk a day habit. Sometimes I literally want to hit him. Why can't they figure out how to extract his metabolism and give me a shot of that ???? Ugh, it makes me sick.
I got very excited when I saw this thread. I got even more excited when I saw the number of replies. I'm about 75 pounds more than my boyfriend and thats only because he's gained about 15 pounds in the past month or so. He quit smoking and started eating A LOT more of the right foods and weight lifting. We've been together about 4 years and I've always been the heavier one. I'm looking forward to being skinnier than him by summer. Our relationship is not the best, but thats a TOTALLY different thread. Right now I'm trying to focus on myself.
At my highest I weighed about 50lbs more than him. When we met he weighed about 100lbs more than me... (how I miss those days) Right now I'm ALMOST back down to where he's at, I'm about 5lbs more than him. But he is 6' tall, whereas I'm only 5'4".
Ah, yes...mine is... my bf is like 30lbs less than me!! Argh. My bf before him was prob 130lbs soaking wet! That kind of difference makes me feel weird... my bf now, it's not too bad we're similar looking. I had another skinny bf a long time ago (unhealthy skinny) and I never felt that he was ok with my weight and so we were never really ok together. I WILL be less than my bf!! I'm glad others feel the same about that.
My bf weighs around 138-140. My goal is to get to 140. And then when I get there hopefully a few pounds less just so I can say he weighs more than i do! eeekkk....
At his highest weight, 168 lbs, which isn't much higher than his average weight, around 160-ish lbs, I'm still 21 lbs heaver than him. Although he is probably a couple of inches taller than me it still makes me feel ultra self-conscience. ; c I just wanna be his sexy (and healthy) GF! I can't wait for the moment I'm a lower weight than he is! I'll actually probably make it a mini-goal and reward myself accordingly!
I did, pre diet. He`s 4 in taller than me and I was still heavier, which hurt. When we met I was slim and he was large, but he then trimmed down (while I put it on) and is now in fantastic shape.
No, but if I hadn't started losing weight when I did I'd be looking at that scenario.
That would be very bad, given that I'm 5'5 and he's 6'2.
My highest weight was 91kg. When I met him, he was 94kg. [I was in the 60s somewhere when we met]. When I was 91 he was something like 118, but he's since slimmed down and is close to going under 100kg again.
Actually even though I've never admitted it to myself I think subconsciously the fear of weighing more than my 6'2 partner probably has a lot to do with my motivation.
Last edited by GoldenLeaf; 07-05-2010 at 01:40 AM.
Reason: didn't realise I'd resurrected an old thread - it's a great thread though!!
Now he's about ten pounds heavier...which is a good thing since he's four inches taller!
eeekkk....
