I was suggesting church as a place where you might make friends , many churches have single groups with lots of get togethers. How do you know he is 18. ? I think you need to meet somebody in person and have a face to face relationship. Give yourself time. Relax, this guy doesn't sound too promising. He could be totally on the up and up but how can you be sure ?How about your guitar playing, anybody in your area looking for a guitar player ? Maybe taking guitar lessons would open up some opportunities to meet other people. Try to expand your horizons a little, Slowly one step at a time, and you will get more confidence.

You wrecked his life and you're his "everything" because you two have been text messaging each other?

Pardon the bluntness here, but I think you're both seriously fantasizing, and you don't want to ruin the fantasy by actually dealing with talking to or hanging with the real person. Nothing wrong with a fantasy, until you can't tell if it's real or not. Personally, I'd be a little concerned about a guy who was that hooked on the text game.

Get out, meet people (even if it really, really sucks to have to get out and meet people), enjoy your friends, and you'll get to where you want to be. And it won't be behind a cell phone screen. :)

I was looking for this topic everywhere lol I wanted to update it sooo here it goes :) Well I ended up talking to the guy on the phone a week after I made this topic :D. It wasn't as bad as I thought it would be I was pretty suprised when he told me I can't believe your shy you sound really natural talkn to me on the phone (lol) he was actually way quieter than I am I even made him laugh a couple of times and our convo was good. I felt like a chatterbox tho :o he was so quiet we had too many of those akward silences that he would fill with "I love you" and "I missed you" and "I can't wait till we finally meet" and I was like ummm ok.I guess...then something weird happened he told me he could only talk to me before 10pm bcuz his parents were really strict and he has school in the day and then works til 11pm I just didn't see where I fit into his "busy schedule" he stopped calling during the day and would just leave voicemails at 1am.I got the idea from another topic to read the book he's just not that into you and let me tell you its soooo true! It said somwhere if you stop answering his calls he will stop calling...its been a week and nothn even though I sent him a little hi text :( It wasn't too bad tho I mean he is a really sweet guy it was a great experience. Glad it happend sooner than later I guess everyone was right he wasn't the exception...it makes me wonder if he was really "18" seemed kinda fishy. I'm done looking for prince charming I'm just gna look out for me :D