I just want to rant about something if you guys don't mind. I'm really getting annoyed with my bf about him complaining all the time that he is tired and has no time for things. Currently I am living across the country from him for the summer (due to a job). I want to be supportive but it goes against my personal belief that if you want something badly enough you MAKE time for it, and you go out and find a solution to your problem. I'm tired of listening to this!
When we met he was into so many things: mountain biking, kickboxing, photography (he was really good!), snowboarding, firefighting (really!). After we started going out everything stopped. I know his excuse is he moved to a new city, but honestly, is that a good excuse after TWO years? I feel kind of hurt, like I was mislead, as if he only did those things so I would go out with him, and once I became his gf he had no need to anymore.
I don't understand how he says he has no time! Now that I'm not there what is he doing with all the time we spent together?? How do I have time for lots of stuff when I ALSO WORK 8 hours a day, I also have a house to clean, and groceries to buy?
I'm starting to lose the attraction and it kinda sucks. It seems sort of shallow, doesn't it? I don't like to sit still, I like a guy who feels the same. I wish he still had his own hobbies, aka a life outside of work and me. It sucks cause normally I would end this by now, but I do love him.