He may be a nice guy in general, but even if he is... and even if he likes you but the whole problem is he's afraid to date you because you're too heavy.... then PASS.
Seriously. I've been there, done that... and you know what? That's his choice, his pass up... his
problem he's missing out on a great girl. There ARE some good guys out there that will give you a chance despite your weight (i.e. so called "flaws"... grr) and love you for who you are inside and see you for your potential. And a guy like that is priceless..... mine is.
And now that I found him... I'm so much more motivated to better myself than I was before because he's so supportive.
Good luck chica....