I have been seeing the same guy for over a year now. In the beginning we were just dating but as the months went on he made it clear to me we would never be exclusive to eachother. We ended it and got back together many many times, mostly because I'd get so fed up with him. At this point it's mostly been late night calls and no actual hanging out in public dates or anything. He stands me up a lot too. And in general he's pretty disrespectful, if I ever talk about anything he'll interrupt and tell me I'm boring him, or he'll just make loud snoring noises until I shut up. He's done a ton of other ****ty things too, like flirt with girls in front of me etc etc. He never returns phone calls either. This guy is overweight, doesn't really take too good care of himself, is unemployed, dropped out of university, and all he ever does is smoke weed and get wasted but for some ridiculous insane reason I can never stop thinking about him.
I have guys show interest often but for some reason I'm sooo picky about them. A lot of them are from school, and I'm in my 3rd year of molecular biology which equals a ton of over achieving nerds hitting on me that want to make me their baby carrying homemaker machine. My general complaints are that they're "too nice" or "too clingy" or not outgoing etc etc. So does anyone have any advice? Should I give one of these guys a chance, or stick with the *******? And does anyone know what's wrong with me? I'd love some harsh comments that would really snap me out of this. This guy has put me through absolute ****, to the point where I'm crying on the bathroom floor for hours trying to figure out how the **** I got here.