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JulieJ08

10-02-2008 12:57 PM

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Originally Posted by KateRN (Post 2390110)

i think its a generally well known fact that everyone can be friends with the fat girl! we're non-threatening, funny and easy to talk to. girls can be our friends, no fear of us stealing their men, guys can talk to us to get to our skinny friends.

anyone ever wonder if you are going to lose friends when you become more of a threat? i have a few "friends" who have been very consistent in my life, but are def trying to sabotage my weight loss and who go out of their way to talk about how many guys like them, send me pictures of themselves in swim suits and talk about how sexy they look and how nice their abs our - for no real reason other than to make me feel bad, as far as i can tell.

ever wonder what will happen when you lose weight?
ever experience this?

I don't know. I hear this stuff over and over. Never happened amongst any of my groups of friends, at any age.

DRose

10-02-2008 01:04 PM

I've definitely noticed this. My cousin, whom I've been best friends with my whole life, has always been very thin and I've always been the fat one. So recently as I've been trying to lose weight I notice her maybe trying to sabotage that... For example, she'll want to go get ice cream or something...then I order nonfat frozen yogurt and she seems to get annoyed or angry. I'm not sure whether it is because she would "feel fat" if she had ice cream and I was eating nonfat yogurt....or because she doesn't want me to be losing weight. There are other instances where it seems that she wants to get something particularly fattening, I end up ordering something healthier and she gets annoyed. I don't recall her ever saying anything about my losing weight either.

raw23

10-02-2008 02:35 PM

I dont understand that at all. How does someone's weight affect anyone else? That's just stupid.

Fat Melanie

10-02-2008 02:52 PM

A lot of people are very insecure, even thin girls.

My sister hated me when I was thin. She was thin as well but I got more compliments. When I started gaining weight, she used every opportunity to put me down because she was very insecure about herself and felt more superior when I packed on some lbs. I think it's pretty pathetic to be that way!

It will kill her when she sees I've lose my weight, but I don't care. She needs to deal with her own insecurities and stop trying to be number one all of the time.

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