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Originally Posted by KLK
What I've also learned is that weight is SUCH a touchy subject for so so so many people; even people who KNOW they are obese refuse to ackowledge that out loud (a lot of times). I used to be that way; I'd recoil at any mention of my weight or anything having to do with body size. Does this friend ever mention weight to you? Does she say, "Wow, I wish I could lose weight" or does she not say anything about her weight? If the former, I think you can definitely offer her advice and that she's being totally silly if she doesn't accept that advice. But if it's the latter -- she probably not even ready to admit that she has a weight problem and all your good advice is pretty useless to her.
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Oh goodness, one of my roommates in the dorms freshman year was really overweight, and one day she came up to me and asked if I thought she was obese. It really ticked me off so I just told her to check her BMI on the internet and she never talked about it again. But she really put me in a tight spot and surprised me.
Anyways, back to my friend... she has talked about losing weight. Or just her frustrations with inability to lose. So when I offered suggestions, she came up with excuses as to why it won't work. Maybe she'll bring it up again and if she does I'll know what to say.