I really did not mean it that way!!!
 

I don't understand why or how I offend people. Apparantly I am a ***** lately... Well, all year. I say things and mean them one way, and they come off the complete wrong way... And I've been over sensitive as well. I seriously don't see how I am doing this - and its not a denial thing, I just don't understand it. Its not just one person, either, its my fiance, dad, friends, mom, brother, co workers... I think I have something wrong with me mentally, aside from my OCD.

And my head hurts today. A lot... Not enough water yesterday after having all my water for like 4 weeks.

I don't think this post makes any sense. I'm just going to go hide in a hole now.

:hug: I'm sorry you're having a bad day/ year. :)

Do you think people are getting offended b/c of your tone or is b/c of how you are wording your comments?

We all say things that we know came across totally wrong. I always try to learn from it. Like today my boss showed me one of my mistakes and I came back with a solution (but really an excuse) after I was like, man I just should have taken responsibility and kept my mouth shut. I guess you live and learn.

Keep your head up. It will be get better. :hug:

You know, I'm exactly the same with comments. I'll say things meaning one thing and then people refuse to talk to me or hold it against me and being an over senstive person it makes me feel incredibly rubbish because I wouldn't hurt even my greatest enemy when it came down to it.

Big hugs for ya Naytally :hug: If you explain I'm sure those people will understand, and especially being as close as you are they're going to forgive you.