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I Heart Diet Coke 07-29-2008 09:14 PM

So I don't really think any of these are "weird" but here are a few of the things I would love....

+ To feel confident with my body. To be able to wear almost anything and I know that I look good and be able to enjoy things more because I'm not so concerned with being "the fat girl"

+ To run into an ex boyfriend and have him think "whoa she looks hot" (yes I'm mature I know... lol)

+ To be able to wear shorts again

+ To run a marathon

+ My hubby to be able to pick me up

+ To grab a pair of pants and have to put them back and grab a smaller size

+ Like someone said earlier... the cute baby bump one day instead of the girl who gets asked if she's pregnant when I'm not

+ To be an inspiration to girls who feel like they can't lose weight

+ More energy

+ No huffing and puffing up stairs

+ Just to look hot in general


:D:D

fuzzyhare 07-29-2008 09:50 PM

To be able to wear a fitted shirt and not worry that my rolls are hanging out everywhere...

Robot 07-29-2008 09:59 PM

I remember having a weird dream where I'm dancing in front of a mirror in my room in a bikini and I'm having so much fun. I think I may do that when I reach goal, no matter if I have loose skin or not.

GradPhase 07-29-2008 10:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Robot (Post 2292395)
I remember having a weird dream where I'm dancing in front of a mirror in my room in a bikini and I'm having so much fun. I think I may do that when I reach goal, no matter if I have loose skin or not.




Why wait??

Robot 07-29-2008 10:11 PM

I always have the most bizarre dreams, and this particular one just seemed too great not to imitate. If I did it now, I think I'd be too upset with all the jiggle I have now. I think I'll save it when I'm happier with my body.

fuzzyhare 07-30-2008 12:16 AM

My other goal would be to have space between my thighs... thats something I've always wanted and don't ever remember having!!

cornellchick 07-30-2008 01:20 PM

The things I'm looking forward to...

- Single-digit jeans. (Almost there!!)

- This is embarrassing but... Being able to walk around in a skirt without having to wear shapewear underneath (if I don't, my thighs get chafed in a hurry, and I have to waddle around with my legs far apart - not sexy!)

- Two-piece swimsuit with confidence would be amazing.

- I've been losing all my weight over this summer, so I would love to go back to school this August and have someone notice/compliment me on my weight loss! (Male attention is always nice! ;) But anyone noticing would be cool!)

- Buy one item from one of those tiny-girl stores like Aeropostale, AE, Abercrombie... (I wouldn't want to dress like that all the time - not really my everyday style, but I want to be able to find just one cute top or something that really fits me well, and buy it!!)

Bellagirl 07-31-2008 08:29 AM

i have just moved to the beach so i really want to be able to go to the beach everyday and not think twice about being in a bikini.

I too have always wanted a space between my thighs but i dont think it will EVER happen for me. I have knock knees so my thighs always rub together, which results in horrible chaffing in the summer unless i wear stockings under a skirt or pants to work everyday!

Starrynight 07-31-2008 07:44 PM

Weird goals.. I don't have anything really weird..
BUT -
I want to be able to pull off the looks I want to pull off.
I never met my boyfriend's best friends... (we are long-distance and he usually comes down) but I will in September - I don't want to come off as just pretty/cute, I want to knock them out so he can be like, yup she's mine.. haha I know it sounds very shallow but...
I want to wear a cute Halloween outfit
I recently found out that I have back dimples.. they only started to show when I hit the early 150's.. I can't wait for them to become more noticable
I want to go into a store and be able to fit into a small/medium.. not a medium/large.
I want to go into the single digits of sizes.. I know that at the moment I'm a size 11 in jeans.. I want to get to a 7 or 8.
I want to not feel like my fat is hanging out and that I need to wear something over the top I already have on..

KateRN 07-31-2008 08:27 PM

heh i'd love to be one of those women that run to their man and LEAP into his arms...
heh, if i ran and leapt - i'd take him out like a linebacker!

TinkFreak117 07-31-2008 09:03 PM

Ok a weird goal.... I wanna look like tinkerbell.... like her shape is amazing..... I'd also love to be able to wear a bikini and have my bf pick me up and not hurt himself.... =P

Jello 08-11-2008 10:22 AM

OK, I love love love love this thread!!!
 
I read through all your reasons and have so much in common with a lot of you! :grouphug: I want a lot of "simple" things:

I want to tuck in my shirt.
I want to weigh less than my fiance.
I want to sprint up a flight of stairs and not have to stop at the top. :whoo:

And there are so many more little reasons! Oh, and I just made reservations for my hotel in Hawaii next May. So I've got 9 months to lose some weight and be able to buy a bright, new swimsuit right off the rack! :cp:

Going back to reread through all your posts. :D
Jo.

Annita 08-11-2008 10:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Starrynight
I never met my boyfriend's best friends... (we are long-distance and he usually comes down) but I will in September - I don't want to come off as just pretty/cute, I want to knock them out so he can be like, yup she's mine.. haha I know it sounds very shallow but...

This is so true. I always dream of this lol. I haven't met my bf's best friend (he's in another country before i met my bf) so when he comes back, i would love my bf to proud with his best friend that he has a pretty girlfriend :D

shadowclaw 08-11-2008 12:58 PM

I would like to be able to run a mile... right now, I can barely "run" 30 feet. Heck, being able to jog a mile would do.

I, too, would like my boyfriend to be able to carry me.

Oh, and I'd like to be able to wear a dress with an empire waist and not look pregnant.

heidelene 08-11-2008 03:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Eskinomad (Post 2292309)
Someone please tell me that not EVERYONE has those really cute back dimples! I've ALWAYS wanted those, but not even at my skinniest do I think I've had them?? If it turns out that they're just hiding under fat, I might cry. Then train to run a marathon, between more bouts of tears. I don't want to get my hopes up!

Eskinomad - I'm pretty sure that I don't have the back dimples. My lower back is pretty sculpted unlike the rest of me and I have yet to see dimples. ;)

Quote:

Oh, and I'd like to be able to wear a dress with an empire waist and not look pregnant.
OMG - totally! I want to wear anything with an empire waistline and have it look good!

Other goals:

I want people to recognize that my brother and I are siblings. He's 6'1" and maybe 130lbs. He has the metabolism of Superman, I swear. When we're out together, people don't believe that we're sibs because I'm so short and fat and he's so tall and skinny.

I want to wear pants and not have a bulge under my shirt from the tummy being too big and the waistline being too small.

I want my husband to be able to pick me up, too.

I want to wear a pencil skirt and have my butt look good under it.

I want to be able to find clothes on clearance!! Now there's hardly any XL on the clearance rack and most of it looks terrible on me or still runs too small.

I want to go out shopping with my super gorgeous sister-in-law and not feel like a huge blob.

I want my jeans to not wear out in the legs and crotch so quick from my thighs rubbing together

And, most of all, I want to see what I look like as a skinny adult! I have been overweight since the 3rd grade and I have never seen myself in less than a size 12! So - single digit sizes, here I come!!!


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