Yesterday I went clothes shopping, and it did not workout for me, at all. Right now I am wearing a size 16 Victoria's Secret jean, but they are getting too big, and one pair is very noticably baggy in the butt - I just can't wear them out of the house. So I thought I would go jeans shopping at the mall down the street from my house. I know I fit into a 16 at the Gap and Old Navy, but they don't carry a "long" bigger than a 12 at the Gap (I have to order them online), and there isn't an Old Navy at this mall.
So I'm just walking around, scoping out the stores, and I see the CUTEST stuff in American Eagle. I usually don't even go in there, but they had some really cute tanks, henlys, and sweatshirts, so I thought I would check out they jeans too. The biggest size they carry is a 14, so I thought I would try them, since my 16's are getting too big. I get into the changing room with a cute outfit, super excited, and try on the jeans first. Yeah...I couldn't even pull them over my butt, let alone zip them.
And the size large shirt and sweatshirt were both too tight and too short on me. Moreover, when I gave them back to the associate, she was probing me about why I didn't want them, and if she could find me a better fit...ugh, I had to tell her that they are all too small.
There is nothing to say after that - they just don't make a bigger size.
It's just the worst feeling in the world to me, entering a store and realizing that they don't even make a size to fit me. I'm totally an inbetweener, too, because I've tried to shop and Lane Bryant before, and the waist and shoulders and bust on every top is cut way to big (I'm like a size 10 top, and they only carry 14 and up), and the jeans are also just a totally wrong cut for me, even the 14s.
Ugh. So I went to Macy's and bought some shoes...shoes always fit.
Anyway, I just want to be able to go into a store and pickout what looks best on me, knowing that something will fit, and that isn't the issue. Blah. Does anyone have advice on how to perk up a bit from this, and/or does anyone have advice on their favorite stores that cater to taller, somewhat overweight women? I just want some jeans that are flattering on me now, so I can feel good about myself as I lose the weight. Thanks!