WoW thats harsh harping Reddalice!
It sounds as if you have some very outspoken fem fatale's in your family. But I am willing to bet you can give as good as you get!
I would have my responses at the ready for the next get together and some of the ones given here were great!
Like when they say:
"Loosen up a little bit."
Response:
"Loosen? Loosen!! You wouldnt believe how loose my pants are getting!! And all because I can say No to just one more!" ( then walk away with a huge smile on your face... dont give em time to reply.)
"One cup won't make you fat."
Response:
"Nope it wont. But one hundred-one cups will. Gotta draw the line somewhere. Here is good." (and draw a line with your finger along your waist or mouth and laugh. turning that slam into a funny.)
"You deserve good food sometimes."
Response:
"I deserve Great food ALL the time! Thats why I eat the way I do because I deserve to!"
Your all time fav along with my all time fav way to respond.
"you would turn down food I made for you...?"
"I didnt turn it down are you kidding me??!!?? I ate it, I LOVED it! It was the best thing on the whole table! ( Big whole-hearted hug here, complimented with a kiss on the cheek
) Thank you for making it for me. But more importantly thank you for thinking of me. ( or if its a Mom or Grandma ) Thank you for loving me as only you can. I love you too."
This last one is the one that kicked me in the head. It read so harsh, so brutal. Perhaps its just this medium and it didnt sound the way I read it too. Boy I hope so.
"Good god, really now! One extra cup won't kill you."
(( I can see the roll of the eyes, hear the disdain in the voice when reading this sentence. And if I am correct in this... Here's where I would give as good as I got. ))
"Why would you care what I am eating or what I am not??!! If your so sure it wont kill me, YOU eat it and lets find out!"
Some people will never understand the subtle difference between indulging and over-indulging. An indulgence is something to be savored and enjoyed. An over-indulgence goes without saying. Or at least for me guilt and remorse.