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Old 12-31-2000, 04:35 AM   #7
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Dream what you want to dream;
go where you want to go;
be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.


We don't have to do it any better than we can - ever. Do our best for the moment, then let it go. If we have to redo it, we can do our best in another moment, later.
We can never do more or better than we are able to do at the moment. We punish ourselves and make ourselves feel crazy by expecting more than our reasonable best for now.
Striving for excellence is a positive quality.
Striving for perfection is self-defeating. There are days when our best is less than we hoped for. Let those times go. Start over tomorrow. Work things through, until our best becomes better.
There is a time for constructive criticism, but it that's all we give ourselves, we'll give up.
Empowering and complimenting ourselves will not make us lazy. It will nurture us and enable us to give, do, and be out best.

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