I have had a gym membership for 14 years. My husband used it. I just one day decided that I was going to go and it was the best decision that I made for myself. I think that everyone is into getting their workout and not focused on everyone else. I have been going for 2 months and my gym pants are getting so loose.
I am now doing 45 minutes treadmill and 60 elicitical
It gets easier and I love it.