Good points everyone, I have changed in two years, that has been my intent the whole time; to create the person in my head to the person on the outside. But it still stings, he was still commenting on who I was, it's not like she is dead and doesn't exist anymore she is standing in front of your face. He did say it very matter of factly like people who have no filters do but like i said it was a wtf type of moment.
Celyia I remember the same thing happening to me, I was often lumped in with a girl I looked nothing alike but because we were both fat and brown we're identical twins
