I officially began my current weight loss efforts on October 4th, and I have lost about 25 pounds since then. I have lost several inches and my clothes look much better even if I haven't quite managed to work my way down to a smaller size yet. Knowing some of the weird specific body parts that have improved and having quantitative measures of my progress to date helps, but so far no one I know has said anything to me about whether or not they've noticed any changes.
Despite the progress so far, I've only told two people I know IRL about this journey. My sister lives with me and knows that I've been eating healthier, exercising more, and that I've lost weight--although I haven't told her how much. And the wife of a friend was clothes shopping with me recently when I was debating which of two different sized shirts to buy. She's gone from about 180 to 160 after starting weight watchers this fall and was appreciative of the dilemma of whether to go for the top that was pretty much the current size, maybe a little extra room, or the slightly too tight one and work my way down into it. (I did. It fits great now. )
But I still find myself perplexingly embarrassed to let anyone know that I am working on losing weight. A few friends know that I've been going to the gym more frequently, but I almost always phrase my gym excursions as necessary for post-surgery physical therapy for my knee. Still also true, but not the whole picture. I will admit it's possible some of my friends have noticed some of the changes, but maybe haven't said anything because I haven't said anything. Also, about 80% of my friends are male physical scientists, so I know their powers of observation about physical appearance changes are not always the most trust-worthy.
I realized that it my paranoia/issues are kind of at a ridiculous level today when I was attempting to find something to do for a workout. I have a Netflix account which I share with my sister and an on-again/off-again boyfriend-ish person. I was browsing available titles and saw that there were plenty of workout video options available, but I couldn't bring myself to try any of them out because there is no way to hide the list of recently watched items on Netflix. My sister and friend would be able to know that I had been working out! The HORROR!
I know that it's completely unreasonable. So why on earth do I feel ashamed/embarrassed/try to hide that I'm trying to lose weight? Has anyone else experienced anything like that, or am I alone on this one?